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4 Signs She’s Getting Bored with the Relationship

Building a great relationship can be one of the greatest and most exciting things you will ever do.

Many people work for years to solidify a solid bond between each other. But what if that bond starts to fall apart? Even the most tightly held together relationships can eventually come unglued.

Sometimes people lose touch with what united them in the first place and simply coast through the relationship with a lack of interest or commitment. In order to avoid disaster, it is essential for you to know the definitive signs that your significant other is getting bored with your relationship.

1. She Tells You…But Not With Words

There are many people that are completely dumbfounded when they find out their companion has lost interest. They may find themselves asking their partner “Why didn’t you say anything?”

What they don’t realize is that their companion had given them countless non-verbal signs of their degrading interests.
There are a ton of different ways someone can non-verbally communicate their disinterest.

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One common signal is the rejection of public affection, which indicates that they don’t want to be associated with you. Other indicators include an absence of eye contact, sighs, slamming doors, and being aloof when together.

2. The Way She Acts Now Is Not the Way She Acted in the Past

Every great relationship has its high points. Think about the greatest times of your relationship and the way you would interact. Try to get a solid idea of how conversations used to be and compare them to your current interactions. Take note of any differences and try to find out why things changed.

For example: A couple used to always call each other at the end of the night to talk about their day. They would effortlessly converse with each other about random things simply to hear the other one’s voice.

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Now when they call each other the conversations are much shorter and less engaging. This could possibly be because one member of the relationship no longer has a desire to be close with the other one.

3. Does She Make You Feel Special?

People tend to feel closer to others that go out of their way to make them feel important. Most successful relationships are founded on a mutual effort to show how much they mean to one another.

Once a partner begins to lose interest however, these efforts become much less obvious or simply non existent.

For example: A girlfriend knows how stressed out her boyfriend is at the end of the work week. She would always dedicate an hour of her time to giving her boyfriend a massage and helping him unwind.

As she began to lose interest in the relationship, the sessions would become shorter and shorter until eventually they simply stopped all together.

4. Evaluate Intimacy

This is by far one of the most important ways to tell if your partner is losing interest in you. A strong intimate bond plays a huge role in keeping a relationship fresh. It shows that you have a mutual attraction for each other and motivates a stronger connection. Pay close attention to any changes that may happen in your intimate life.

Are you touching less often? Is there more physical distance between you? Can you still see the spark of desire in your partner’s actions? These are all important questions you should ask yourself if you feel your partner may be losing interest in you.

If you feel your relationship is changing but can’t quite figure out why, you should make an immediate effort to asses your partner’s interests. You don’t have to lose all hope in your relationship.

If you are able to pick up on these signs early enough there is a good chance you can acknowledge the lack of interest, find out why it is happening, and come up with a solution to spice things up again.

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Dating Techniques Or Just Be Yourself

Fridays article Dating Techniques Or Just Be Yourself will hopefully give you some good ideas. Whatever Dating Technique you use or have used it has to come naturally from who you are and express your genuine self. If your not relaxed your tension will reflect in your date and minimize your chance to another date. I think the best dating tips is to be yourself and to compliment. Just tell her or him that you feel excitement about getting to know them better. My belief is that if you got feelings about someone its most likely they got feelings for you to. So take a chance and if you are sure of your feelings dont take no as an answer. 

Have a great weekend and a great date!

Dick Scott

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Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock for the last few years, you’ve heard all about the dating techniques that have been studied and developed for both men and women. The creators of these techniques swear that they work like nothing you’ve ever experienced. They say that if you really want to get the person of your dreams, all you have to do is follow these techniques and you’ll have him before you know it. While that may be true up to a point, there’s a bit of a problem with that situation.

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When you use dating techniques to land someone, do you plan to go on using them to keep that person? You must admit that these techniques have been formulated for the express purpose of getting the interest of someone you’re attracted to. Most of these techniques don’t show the true personality of the person using them. They may be effective in landing that guy to date, but they’re fake. In other words, you’re doing things that exhibit nothing of the real you. When you win someone through the use of techniques, you run the risk of that person no longer being interested in you when he discovers that you’re not who he thought you were.

Something else to consider is that someone that would fall for these dating techniques may not be a person you want to get to know further, anyway. The reason for that is he may not have realized that these are, indeed, techniques and show him nothing of the person you really are. Wouldn’t you rather have someone in your life that’s smarter than that?

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Now, when it comes to you simply being yourself when you’re on the prowl for a new dating companion or possibly a potential relationship, this person will get to know the person you really are. There will be no game playing and nothing that you’ll have to hide forever. Things start out on an even playing field and you can relax into the relationship rather than continuing to lie about what and who you really are.

Of course, if you happen to be someone with some bad habits or things that aren’t so desirable, you’ll probably want to think about making some changes. For instance, people expect other people, especially the ones they’ll be dating, to have decent hygiene. Therefore, if it’s your practice to rarely brush your teeth or neglect deodorant, those are things that will be noticed. So if you’re just brushing your teeth and putting on deodorant as part of some dating techniques, you’ll find that you need to keep doing it once you’ve landed this guy. If you don’t, he won’t be staying long enough for you to even introduce him to your family.

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These are things to think about seriously when you’re heading out to the dating arena. Should you use the dating techniques or should you just be yourself? There’s also another choice. It’s possible to mix some dating techniques in with your real personality. That may actually be the best idea of them all! I also copied one of the testimonials regarding Dates that readers of The Magic of Making Up have sent! You can read it below this article.

Thanx for reading! Light&Love 2 You!!

Dick Scott

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“Just wanted to say thank you soooooooooo much for the amazing advice in your book the magic of making up. Yesterday was that all important First Date and it was absolutely fantastic… i just had an email from him saying what a great time he had and how he can’t believe how cool it was to be together. Also back when we split up, your book picked me up out of the mud when I was feeling the worst I ever felt in my life, and doing all the things you advised gave me a life line – now I am so much stronger and happier. I’m still going to take things slowly with my ex (I’m not at the end of your plan yet!!) but I can’t believe how well life is going only 2 months after I felt like I was half dead. Thank you so much.”
Alice

 

How To Get Lover Back: Dinner Dates

Todays article Dinner Dates gives some great tips on dinner dating and why not invite to a date at your home. It will both be much more personal and also cheaper. You also will have the opportunity to show more of who you are and how you live. So make a great dinner with romantic music and a lot of candles and im sure it will be appreciated.

Good luck with your date and have a great wednesday!

Dick Scott

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In times like these where so many people are losing their jobs due to the downward spiral of the economy, dating can become a real challenge. Even dinner dates at places like McDonald’s can be difficult to manage. That’s why it’s a tossup of whether you should have dinner out or do the cooking at home.
Consider the price of a dinner out. If you go to a nice restaurant that serves excellent food, you’ll probably do well to get out for $30 to $35. Then you need to include the tip if your server has been very attentive and provided great service. Next, you should add in the amount of fuel you used for your car. With the prices of gas these days, it can add on another $10. For couples without children, it may end at this point. If a babysitter is needed, add on another $25 – $30, depending on how late you were gone. The overall cost of that dinner out can easily reach the $100 mark before the night is over.

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Now, compare that with the price of a romantic dinner that you either cook or order in. Starting with take out, you save money instantly by picking it up yourself because you don’t have to tip anyone for service. Also, many restaurants that offer takeout orders will have specials that apply only to orders that are picked up by the customer. So you may even save more money. Your beverages will also be less expensive. That part is true even if you decide to buy food at the grocery store to cook yourself.

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Shopping and doing your own cooking can really save some money. You can find a special on two steaks; add a couple of potatoes and a bagged salad that you can spruce up a bit. Throw in some dinner rolls and you’re good to go. In fact, you’ve probably got enough money left to spring for dessert. Once you’ve set the table with candles and turned on some romantic music, the ambience is also going to be much better. You won’t have lots of people talking loudly around you, or couples with several noisy children disrupting your meal, and that can mean a lot.

The thing is that while you spent nearly $100 on a nice dinner out, and it may have been wonderful, you could have had just as nice a time staying at home. Your meal would have been just as tasty and you could have spent a nice, quiet, romantic evening together; just the two of you. As for the kids, you wouldn’t need a babysitter because you will have them in bed and sleeping before your evening begins. If you’re lucky, you may even have in-laws or great friends that love to babysit your kids and they won’t charge you a dime.
In addition, the only gas you’ve spent is on your shopping trip to the store, and that was probably something you had to do anyway. So all in all, you’ll save a great deal of money if you choose to have your romantic dinner at home.

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However, in the event of a truly special occasion, you may want to just throw caution to the wind and let someone else do the waiting on you for the night.

Thanx for reading and i wish you the best in life and love!!

Dick Scott

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What’s the Big Deal About Date Night?

In the beginning, most couples have no trouble to sticking with a weekly date night. It’s a great way to go out and do fun stuff together — as a couple. It’s time to get out of the house and break the routine a bit. However, time marches on. Children come into the picture. Budgets get strained. Economies tumble. The weekly ritual of date night takes a backseat to diaper duty, PTA meetings, and extra shifts at work. Then the marriage starts to crumble bit by bit. Is all this really the result of no longer having date night? It could be. Date night is more important than many couples realize on the surface. But why is it so important?

Date Night Helps You Stay Connected

We live in an amazingly connected world. We have laptops, mobile phones, tablet devices, instant messages, Facebook status reports, Twitter feeds and countless other methods to stay connected on-the-go. With all that connectivity, the human connection often gets lost in the mix. People ignore the person sitting across the room in order to connect with someone thousands of miles away they haven’t seen in fifteen years. Date night, takes all that away and leaves the two of you alone to connect with one another — no matter what else is going on in your worlds.

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Allows You to Spend Time Together as Lovers

Date night is about being alone together. More importantly, it’s about going out, away from the house (and the responsibilities that live in that house) and spending time together as lovers. It’s a change to hold hands, to have adult conversations, and to, dare I say it, FLIRT with one another. It’s time to be man and woman rather than MOM and DAD. It’s important because it helps you remember why the two of you fell in love in the first place.

Forces You to Make Time for Each Other

One of the most important things you need to do, for the sake of your marriage, is make time for each other. In putting your family first, which is an admirable quality in any family, it’s very important to remember that your spouse is your family too. He or she needs your time just as much as each and every one of your children. Date night, gives you one night, out of seven, to spend time together. It shouldn’t be too much to ask — no matter how busy your lives become.

If you really want to maximize the effectiveness of date night, avoid topics of conversation involving school, work, family, and calendars — unless you’re discussing an upcoming romantic getaway that you’re both excited about. Date night is your opportunity to rev up the romance engine in your relationship. Don’t take it for granted.