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Top 7 Tips For Getting Your Lover Back

Is getting your lover back what you really want?

Do you truly miss this person’s mind, body, and soul? Or do you simply want them back because you want what you no longer have? See the difference?

Regardless of how you are currently feeling, now is the time to assess the situation objectively and figure it out without letting your emotions get in the way.

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Look at the big picture of you and your ex – past and present. Now, take yourself (and your emotions) out of the picture. What advice would you give yourself about your current situation?

Understandably, this is somewhat difficult to do when you are drowning in a river of tears. But if you can get to this point, you will be able to clearly see what you should do; make up or move on. If you decide to reconcile with your ex, follow these steps to increase your chances of success.

1. Maintain Your Dignity and Do Not Beg

Extreme begging or desperate behavior will only make you look pathetic in the eyes of your ex lover. Also, this may induce feelings of resentment later on. How would you feel if they did this to you? This is the wrong approach. At all costs maintain your dignity.

2. If Need Be, Apologize to Your Lover

Are you one of these people that never apologize or admit when they are wrong? If so, you need to come clean and swallow your pride. Chances are you’ll probably be instantly forgiven by getting off your high-horse, coming down to Earth, and actually saying sorry for whatever it is you did. Not only that, your ex will likely be blown away and see you in a whole new light (respect).

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3. Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Talk is cheap, while actions demonstrate motivation. Therefore, stop telling your ex how much you’ve changed – show them. Promises are just dust in the wind if you don’t put action behind them – especially if your ex has heard it all before.

4. Emotional Blackmail Never Works

It may not feel like it right now, but you can live just fine without your ex lover. Letting your emotions get completely out of control and using them against your ex with threats and/or manipulations will likely send them running in the other direction. Also, it will highlight the exact reasons why you’re probably having problems in the first place. Do you want to reunite with someone who is sincere and hopeful about making up with you, or with someone who feels negatively pressured into reconciling with you?

5. Stop Playing Games

Playing games such as pretending you’re with someone new in order to make your ex jealous or even something creepy like stalking, will not bring your lover back. This may backfire once you do get back together and may ultimately harm their feelings of trust in you.

6. Romance Your Way Back to Your Lover

By all appearances, romancing your ex with the intention of getting them back can seem a bit manipulative. However, if performed with a sincere and genuine heart, by all means go for it. Send your ex authentic love letters, gifts you know they will enjoy, or simply remind them of the good times you two once shared. Do not focus on what went wrong, but rather what went right. Remind them either through words or actions the reasons you two got together that initially sparked your attraction to one another.

7. Let Go of the Past

Whatever the reasons were for the breakup (whether you walked away or them), you have to let it go. Let the past go or you will never have a future. People change. Nobody’s perfect. What’s done is done. Forgive and move forward to increase your chances of a loving reunion.

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You are going to be fine no matter what. Truly, you must make yourself happy before you can make anyone else happy. Also, if getting your ex back means they are unwilling to meet you halfway, then perhaps it’s time to say goodbye. No relationship is worth sacrificing your soul or happiness.

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Should You Even Try to Get Your Lover Back?

In the first few days, even weeks, after your breakup, the only thing you can think about is how to get your lover back. It’s understandable. Depending on how long the two of you were together, you’ve shared a lot of life. It’s hard to just walk away and pretend it never happened.
The odds are good that your lover isn’t walking off unaffected either. The only real difference is that your lover has been thinking about this for a while. People don’t walk away from long-term-relationships on a whim. In other words, your ex has had a little more time to deal with the emotional side of the decision than you have.
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If you’re struggling to decide if the right choice is to walk away or fight to get your lover back, these questions should help you decide.

Is the Love Still There?

This is a huge question you need to know the answer to before you make a single step to try and win your lover back. While you can only guess about how your ex really feels, you can, and should, explore your own feelings in depth before making your next move. If the love isn’t really there, you should not waste your time and energy, or that of your ex, trying to rekindle something that’s simply not there anymore.

Is the Relationship You Had Truly Worth Rehashing?

Most relationships have their shares of ups and downs. Successful relationships have far more ups in them than downs. Take a look back over the course of your entire relationship. How do the ups compare to the downs for you? Were the good times really good? How bad were the darkest days? Are you willing to experience them again if necessary?

 

How far are You Really Willing to Go to Make It Work?

You must be willing to do whatever it takes to make it work in most cases for that to happen. Your ex is likely to throw in a few pitfalls and tests along the way, if he or she is even willing to give it a go. Be prepared for them and ready to ace them with flying colors. Don’t even think about letting her see you sweat. But the willingness goes even deeper than passing a few tests. You must be willing to make a few vital changes for the sake of your relationship. But you won’t often find out what they are until the moment arrives. Just be prepared. Some of the changes may not be all that simple to make.
Most importantly, however, is your willingness to be the one to wait. This is often the most difficult, and most necessary, part of winning your lover back. Waiting for the right moment, though, makes all the difference in the world. I can help you understand when that moment is and help you come up with the ideal strategy to turn it into a prime opportunity.

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Why Doesn’t He Love Me Anymore?

The feeling of falling out of love isn’t a pleasant one by any stretch of the imagination — especially when you’re on the receiving end. You’re left to wonder what went wrong, whether it was your fault, and if there’s anything you can do to change things. The good news for you is that most people don’t simply turn love on and off like a light switch. It takes time to fall in love — and to fall out of it. That means he probably isn’t quite there yet. And a little bit of love is all you need as a foundation upon which you can build a once in a lifetime kind of love.
But, knowing that doesn’t fix the problem in your relationship. What you need is a plan of action that’s sure to SOLVE the problem.

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Your immediate problem is that he isn’t FEELING the love right now. The solution is simple. You need to make him feel the love again. Of course, from where you sit, reading this, it doesn’t seem all that simple. Consider making these moves to see what a difference they make in how he feels about you.

1) Start Dressing to Impress

While the best relationships aren’t based on looks alone, it never hurts for your man to see you making an effort to look good for him. Wear the clothes he likes to see you wearing, fix up your hair, apply a few strategic cosmetics, etc. You may even consider professional waxing services.
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These moves won’t necessarily have him feeling the love for you again, but they will certainly get his attention. Once you have his attention, it’s time to make your next move.

2) Change the Way YOU Show Your Love for Him

Men and women express love and feel loved in different ways. While stereotypes aren’t always helpful, it does help to understand that there are fundamental differences. Men feel and show love through physical acts. Not all of them are sexual. Sometimes, it’s little things like making sure the oil is changed in your car or mowing the lawn week after week. At other times it is more personal, such as a protective hand on your back in public, a steadying arm as you climb steps together, or intimate acts that are the ultimate expression of love for the average man.
Women express love differently. The expressions are often verbal or service oriented. Taking care of the household, preparing meals, and other domestic tasks are prime examples. Women are also much more likely to use words to express your love. If you want him to feel love you must watch the words you use at all times. Words that criticize, confront, or disrespect tear down the love he’s building while words that edify, respect, and show deep admiration and loyalty build up the love. Physical acts, such as touching and other acts of service are also excellent choices because they show him YOUR love in HIS language.
Keep these things in mind and you’ll never need to ask, “Why doesn’t he love me anymore?” again. He’ll be feeling the love and showing you more than a little love in return.

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How Do I Know He Loves Me?

From childhood games with folded paper fortune tellers to Whitney Houston blaring from your ear buds, girls have been asking the same question for eons. As long as love has been a concept in the hearts and minds of humanity, this question has been asked by women.
Men aren’t known for being open about their feelings. Some men are more open than others and sometimes it feels like he’s telling you what he thinks you want to hear rather than how he really feels. So, how can you really know if he loves you? These are a few hard to mistake signs.

Hes Reaching Out to You

We live in a day and age where communication is nearly constant. And, yet, for many women it seems like you’re always the one reaching out. If he is the first one to
• Call
• Text message
• Instant message
• Instagram
• Send messages on Facebook
• Email
the odds are great that he really has feelings for you he wants to explore. Men who are ambivalent rarely make the first move. They certainly don’t go out of their way to send you messages in the morning or call you up out of the blue just to see how your day is going.
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He Tells You He Loves You

The “L” word is difficult for many men to utter. Just trying to say it, for some men, makes them feel like their tongues have suddenly become glued to the tops of their mouths. You know, the peanut butter dry mouth syndrome. Even when they feel genuine love for you, it’s nearly impossible for men to be the first to make that declaration. If he says he loves you, chances are, he really does. Don’t expect him to make Herculean efforts, in your eyes, to prove it. From his perspective, just saying it was Herculean enough.

He Deals with Your Friends and Family

Men don’t often tolerate uncomfortable scrutiny. The fact that he’s willing to be put on the chopping block of public opinion with your friends and family says a lot about where his heart is. If he keeps going back for more punishment, you’ve got a real keeper on your hands.
At the end of the day, though, it doesn’t matter how often he tells you, what he puts up with to show you, or whether or not he makes the first move. What matters most is whether or not he makes you feel loved BY HIM. No amount of sweat talk or sincere gestures on his part are going to convince you if you don’t feel the love he professes.

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Why You Lost Your Girlfriend And How You Can Get Lover Back

Yeah, the feeling of getting dumped by your girlfriend sucks. There’s no question about that.

Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship.

But the bottom of the line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your girlfriend’s lost attraction for you.

No, it wasn’t because you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it’s “her, not you…”, it’s because the foundation of her attraction for you faded � and it’s your fault. Though there are ways you can “re-attract” your girlfriend (and I’ll get to that in a second), you have to first understand why she dumped you. Only then will you know how you can get her back.

This is what I like to call The Six Deadly Relationship Sins.

Now, I’m not saying that you committed all of these mistakes, but chances are you probably exhibited at least one of these characteristics that pretty much forced your girlfriend to leave you (even if she’s claimed that she left you for another reason).

The first Deadly Sin is a common problem that over half of men have in their relationships – and that’s being way too controlling.

Women are repelled by men that put unrealistic restraints on their lives. Though asserting your dominance in a relationship is important, you have to know exactly when “enough is enough”. If you don’t, then don’t be surprised that your girlfriend or wife left you.

The second Deadly Sin is a bit of a weird one, but always seeking external validity from your girlfriend is a huge attraction-breaker.

What does that mean? It means that you constantly seek out your girlfriend’s approval. Asking questions like, “Do you love me? Do think I’m fit enough? Is my penis big enough for you? Did you have a good time?” repel women. It’s like saying to her that you aren’t confident enough or good enough… and this reeks of insecurity.

The third Deadly Sin is being jealous all the time.

Were you jealous that she was flirting with other guys? Maybe she was hanging out with a guy friend that you felt a little suspicious about… Well, if you did exhibit this emotion, then again, don’t be surprised that your girlfriend lost some attraction for you. Jealousy is the ultimate form of insecurity.

So now that you know only some of the relationship killers, how do you go about “re-attracting” your girlfriend?

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Well, it starts with employing some of my most powerful psychological techniques. Yes, even if things seem completely hopeless right now, you can get her back if you know what you’re doing.

Let me first introduce myself. My name is Brad Browning and I’m known as the “Relationship Geek.” I’ve been helping thousands of men across the globe win back their ex-girlfriends. My success rate is over 90%.

Even if you think your relationship with your ex girlfriend is completely torn

-I can bet you there is a way to make her fall hopelessly in love with you again (or at least make her want to sleep with you again).
You see, what a lot of men do when they get dumped is start acting like complete wussies. They’ll start asking for forgiveness and start begging for second chances. If you’re guilty of one of these mistakes, then you better start listening to my advice… because chances are you’re doing something right now that is pushing your girlfriend further and further away into the arms of another man.

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So do yourself a favor and check out my free video.

In it, I’ll tell you exactly how you can get your ex girlfriend back as soon as possible… and I’ll go over some other Deadly Sins as well.

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Dating tips:Be Upfront About The Relationship You Want

Too many people enter the dating game not fully sure of what they actually want to get out of it.

Granted, most women are hoping to find Mr. Right so they can get married, settle down and start a family. However, not all women are looking for that type of relationship. Many are simply looking for someone that they can have fun with and relate to on an equal footing. Others only want someone to have a physical relationship with and aren’t actually interested in being involved with anyone.

Nothing is wrong with any of those reasons for dating.

In fact, if all people wanted the exact same things in life, this would be a rather boring world to live in. Everyone is different in their own way and that’s what makes things interesting. However, if you’re looking for a particular type of relationship, it’s only fair that you let potential partners know exactly what you’re looking for. In that way, if you’re someone that wants the white picket fence, you won’t waste your time and the time of someone that only wants to date casually. It also keeps you from getting your feelings hurt.

Also, consider the age group that you’ll fall into when looking for a great person to begin dating with.

Like it or not, there are certain things that each age group is looking for in the majority. For instance, if you’re in your mid -30s, you’re probably going to find that there are a lot of divorced people in this group. They’ve already done the marriage and family thing and will usually come with some “extras,” such as children. So if you want to find Mr. Right and settle down but aren’t necessarily looking for a readymade family, you probably want to get that clear from the outset.

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Younger age groups are still in that phase of just having some fun.

They want to party, take trips and just have fun in general when they’re not working. The people that fall into this group are typically not looking for anything truly serious, although they’re starting to understand that they’ll need to be a bit more particular in their dating partners. It just depends on which side of 25 they are.

Older groups such as 40, 50 and 60 years old are usually not hoping to start a family, especially women because by the time they hit 50 they’re going to have to adopt if they want children. Some men like the idea of being a father later in life but most are ready to start enjoying the things that having a career for several years has enabled them to do. They want to travel extensively and just enjoy life.

Then there’s the group that contains all ages. These can get a bit dicey because you can have a 45 year old woman dating a 25 year old man and their future plans can be totally different. On the other hand, they can be very similar in the present but change drastically in the future. So you need to be careful with that.
The most important thing is that, no matter what your age, you’re clear about the things you want in a relationship before you start dating and then there can be no misunderstandings later.

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Guide to Getting Your Girlfriend Back

Breaking up is especially difficult when it wasn’t your plan. Men handle unexpected breakups in different ways. Some men go all in to get their girlfriend  back. They jump through crazy hoops, make deals, bargain, beg, and come close to stalking in an effort to get their girlfriend back.

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Other men decide that maybe this is just how things were meant to be and seek greener pastures elsewhere – at least, that’s what they do in time. It often takes at least a little while to mend their broken hearts and feel willing to put them back on the market again.

But there are still others who want to ride off into the sunset with the girlfriend that got away

-but have no idea how to make that happen. More importantly, they want to get her back but they don’t want to have to jump through hoops to do it.

Fortunately, hoop jumping really isn’t necessary to get the girlfriend back. You don’t even have to do the chasing. You’ll probably be surprised to learn just how easy it can be to get her to come back to you.

Don’t Call Your Girlfriend

Sounds simple enough, doesn’t it? After all, it requires no action on your part. What it does require, though, is dedicated inaction. That’s not so simple when every instinct you have is telling you to go after her.

It’s the primal male drive to conquer all threats to life, limb, and overall happiness. You want to make her see the light. You want to show her how good it really is between you. You want things to be the way they were.

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Chasing the girlfriend down might make her swoon in the movies. In real life it nets you a restraining order. Give her a little time to work through her own emotions and take a little time to really think about whether things really were all that good (for both of you) the way they were.

Make Small Changes at Home

You don’t have to become a completely new man. That’s way too much work. But you might make a few small changes in appearance – yes girls really do notice these things. Consider something simple to start with like teeth whitening to brighten your smile.

While you might not be interested in a full blown gym membership, you might want to consider lifting weights at home (within reason) or playing racquetball or even pickup basketball games for a little firming and toning – maybe even skip that second beer at night or cut back from the pizza. Small changes don’t require a lot of effort and can deliver really big results.

Wait for your Girlfriend to Come

Believe it or not, the world is small. Once people start noticing the little changes you’re making, and believe me they will, word will get back to her. Women are curious creatures. Not only in the sense that men have a hard time understanding them, but because they like to know what’s going on.

It will drive her insane with curiosity that you’re doing so well without her. She’ll want to know why you’re looking better, getting together with other people, and making changes for the better in your life – even little changes get big attention in today’s world.

She will call or “bump” into you just to see what’s different. She’ll be desperate to know what’s going on. That’s when it’s really time to work your magic. All you need now is the right thing to say to convince her she was wrong to walk away.

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How To Get Lover Back:Romantic Evenings At Home

Romantic Evenings At Home

In most parts of the world, the cold weather has settled in. Other areas are experiencing what can only be described as a near depression in the economy. These two things, when combined, make romantic evenings at home a magnificent idea. Not only do you not have to go out in freezing temperatures but you also don’t have to spend a lot of money when you and your partner want to enjoy a romantic evening together. Following are some great ways to have a fun and romantic evening without having to leave the warmth of your home or spend a small fortune:

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Movie Night: This is a pretty typical as well as popular way for couples to enjoy a romantic evening by a cozy fire. Rent or haul out an owned DVD that both of you like. It can be a romantic movie or a nerve jangler that will give you a reason to stay wrapped up together on the couch. You can even make it more fun by adding hotdogs that you roast on your own in the fire along with some chips. Popcorn works as a filling snack, too.

Romantic Dinner: Bring out the candles for the table. Broil some steaks to serve with a salad and baked potato. Wine also helps to round out the meal. Put on some sexy music to play low in the background and you’re all set. Dessert can be a really sexy event with a chocolate fondue and some strawberries for dipping. Dip the strawberries and feed them to each other as you top off the night with some truly hot lovemaking either in the bedroom or on the floor in front of the fireplace.

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Reading in Bed: This is sexier than it sounds. Both of you choose a really hot book that has been a turn on in the past for you. Prepare for it with something like a bubble bath or shower together beforehand. Don’t cheat, though. Just use it as really intense foreplay. You can light some candles around the bedroom and then cuddle up in bed together with the chosen sexy book. Take turns reading it to each other, possibly starting to mimic some of the things you’re reading in the book. This can turn into a REALLY hot night.

Roleplaying: If you and your partner are rather adventurous sexually, you may enjoy indulging in some roleplaying to heat up a really cold night. It will take a bit of preparation because you’ll want all of the necessary supplies at hand. Then turn off all the phones and hide your vehicles. Pretend you’re not at home. Of course, if it’s really THAT cold outside, you probably won’t have to worry about anyone just showing up to disturb you. The point is to have the time of your lives together in a warm home.

Those are some simple and creative ideas to get you going. You’ll most likely come up with some pretty hot ones of your own. Don’t hesitate to indulge in some of your favorite fantasies as you go along.

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Could a Good Night Sleep Bring Back the Spark to Your Relationship?

Could a Good Night Sleep Bring Back the Spark to Your Relationship?

Many things have a profound impact on your mental and physical health. Very few of those things have the far-reaching implications on all aspects of health and wellbeing as sleep, or lack thereof. Getting a good night’s sleep can change the course of your day. Chronic sleep deprivation is linked to a wide range of health problems including obesity, fatigue, depression, anxiety, diabetes, and even erectile dysfunction.

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In other words, it’s no laughing matter. But, do you know that changing your mattress can make all the difference in the world when it comes to getting a good night’s sleep? It’s true. Different mattresses work best for people who sleep in different ways. For instance, people who sleep on their backs, often sleep best with firm mattresses that provide additional back support. Those who sleep on their sides, fare better with medium firm or plush top mattresses that offer an adequate amount of support with a little additional cushioning for the pressure points.

The critical thing to remember is that a new mattress can breathe new life into your relationship by helping you both get a proper amount of sleep at night. That’s one reason the Sleep Number mattresses that allow you to each choose the firmness or softness on your side of the bed are so popular. They allow you to both get the right support where you need it for a great night’s sleep. Here are a few of the ways mattresses revive the spark in struggling relationship.

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Decrease Irritability

When you’re getting an adequate amount of sleep, you’re not nearly as irritable and snappy as you are after one night of sleeplessness, much less months or even years of restless sleep. Irritability leads to fights, which ultimately leave someone sleeping on the couch, in yet another unpleasant sleeping arrangement. There may be sparks, but these are not the sparks you’re looking for.

Comfort

The bottom line is that a new mattress is more comfortable. That allows you to fall asleep faster and makes you more likely to remain asleep once you manage to get there. It also means you’re going to wake up feeling more rested and without the aches and creaks from sleeping without adequate support or from doing late night gymnastics trying to get comfortable.

Energy

You’ll have more of it. It’s that simple. You’ll wake up feeling more energized and better prepared to face the day. More importantly, that positive energy will last throughout your day rather than giving out promptly at 2:00 in the afternoon.

There are some sleep problems; however, a new mattress won’t cure. You’re on your own with snoring partners and midnight baby feedings. For most other sleep-related problems, a new mattress, the right new mattress, is a great start. Try it and see just how soon sparks, the good kind, are flying in your relationship.

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