It’s not always easy to tell if a man is actually in love with you or just really likes you.
But there are a few surefire ways to tell so you can stop wondering. You’re His Top Priority He thinks about you often and keeps in contact frequently throughout the day. He includes you in his plans and appreciates it when you do the same for him. In conversation, he uses words like “us”, “we”, and “ours”. This indicates he subconsciously wants you to be a part of his future.
He Respects You and Treats You Well
When a man loves a woman he is attentive to her needs, feelings, and desires. In fact, if he’s really in love with you, chances are he will put your needs first over his own. Often he will go out of his way to make your life better in some way and also show respect and courtesy to your friends and family as well. A Man in Love Will Tell His Friends All About You If a man shows you affection, especially in public, it clearly indicates he’s proud of you and wants everyone to see that you’re his main squeeze. He wants all his friends and family to know about you and invites you to special family functions and even company gatherings.
Most of His Free Time is Spent With You
You’re the one he wants to see in his free time. He chooses to go everywhere with you and spend major holidays together such as Christmas, New Year’s Eve, Thanksgiving, and of course, Valentine’s Day. If a Man Loves You, He Cares About Your Life A man who truly loves you is genuinely happy when things go well for you. In challenging times, he’s the first one to comfort you and stay by your side. He’s the epitome of a stand-up guy who’s willing to go the extra mile on your behalf. A love-smitten man will likely think of fun ways to surprise you in order to keep you happy. When faced with adversity or danger, he rushes to your side to show his clear intention of protecting you and everything about you.
If a man loves you, there is no way he is going to cheat on you with another woman. No excuses. Yes, men are hard-wired to spread their seed and procreate in the animal kingdom. But an honorable man who’s deeply in love with a woman wouldn’t think of it. He only desires the object of his affection – you. Also, he treats your relationship with the utmost integrity and honor. He is trustworthy, noble, and loyal when it comes to your connection with him. He does what he says he’s going to do out of respect for you. Actions Speak Louder Than Words Never believe a man when he says “I love you” if his actions and behaviors aren’t aligned with his words. Does he say “I love you” and then turn around and text another woman secretly behind your back? If so, he doesn’t truly love or respect you. Your gut instinct will let you know whether he’s simply feeding you a line for some ulterior motive or if he truly means it. Also, read his body language when he says it. Trust your intuition – it’s right 100% of the time.
Everywhere you look whether it’s the news, television, or online, you constantly hear about the ending of some relationship. This celebrity left this one for that one; this person cheated and this one walked out – it goes on and on.
If all the hoopla surrounding the integrity of relationships is true, we’re all in trouble.
It appears couples are now more than ever postponing divorce due to the state of the economy, encouraging advice from bloggers and reporters alike on how to co-exist with your estranged significant other. Maybe there’s a better way…
Are there any truly happy couples out there? Yes, of course. There are happy couples everywhere if you look. However, headlines that start with the word “divorce” rather than “happy” seem to draw a much larger audience. Sadly, people take a natural interest in conflict.
So, how do these so called “happy couples” stay happy through the typical ups and downs of a relationship, especially given today’s economic trials and tribulations? Perhaps they’re just lucky people. Or, maybe they’re just excessively submissive – “yes, dear”.
Some exciting new relationship studies have recently unveiled a few surprising facts that may conflict with your core beliefs. Consider the following ideas to determine how they relate to your current relationship or at the very least, offer you some new insight.
1. Communication Isn’t Everything
What? That can’t be right. Every relationship expert in the world will tell you that effective communication is at the very core of a solid relationship.
In the dictionary, communication is defined as effectively sharing or expressing feelings and ideas. While this is true of course, communication is hugely misconstrued in the eyes of many people since they interpret it as their spouse bombarding them with righteous opinions and veritable facts.
If you really stop and think about it, the happiest people on the planet are the ones who know how to listen to others and empathize with them. That’s not to say they always agree or don’t have their own opinions, but they sincerely make the effort to see things from their partner’s point of view. In other words, they’re more contemplative than communicative.
2. Date nights? Forget them
The whole purpose of date night is to enjoy the company of your partner, reconnect with them, catch up, and just get close to one another (sex). Date night is a great attempt to relight the fire.
However, after a grueling week at work, changing diapers, helping with homework, cleaning the house, and cooking for an entire family – there’s not much left of you. Cut to the chase and just get to the sex. There will be many date nights in your future.
Think of it this way – date night is a luxury while sex is a necessity. There’s no better way for two people who love each other to “connect” than through the act of sex. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.
3. It’s Okay to Sometimes Go to Bed Angry
Your relationship isn’t always going to be peaches and cream. Sometimes, not everything can be worked out in one day, or one night.
You and your partner both may need to just take a breather and enough time to simply think about the issue at hand. “Sleeping on it” may be the best approach, and in the morning you may have a fresh new perspective on the matter and quickly resolve the problem.
Every couple is different. What works for some may not work for others, and that’s okay. The point is that each couple should follow their own path to success rather than doing exactly what the experts say, or what others believe is best for them. If you are interested in reading more about this subject here is a link to a great article written By Lee Baucom who made the great How To Save Your Marriage E-book. Click on the screenshot to read hes article…
Romantic relationships are often built upon an already strong friendship between two individuals. From there, a relationship can blossom into something filled with blissful memories.
Not all romances last forever, though, and many of them falter at some point. Even the strongest bonds can be broken. Unfortunately, nothing is worse than an acrimonious relationship that ends badly for both parties involved.
Countless arguments can follow that breakup, so can two individuals find friendship later on?
Friendship After a Relationship: Is it Possible?
Without a doubt, the real world is filled with countless examples of failed relationships breaking apart a friendship. Most individuals find it difficult to return to that old friendship, especially after an acrimonious breakup.
One person might desire that friendship once again, while the other wants nothing to do with them. Therefore, failed relationships often break apart the friendship for good, and that trend is hard to avoid. Certain people can succeed here once again.
It’s a Two-Way Street
Both individuals need to desire that friendly bond again, though. If only one person wants the relationship to resume, it becomes difficult for the other person to believe that it will ever blossom once again.
With that in mind, an individual who desires a friendly, platonic relationship should wait awhile to announce such desires. After a bad breakup, people tend to want nothing to do with their former significant other. Time doesn’t always heal all wounds, but it certainly makes rekindling a relationship more of a possibility.
Give It Time and Proceed Slowly
Broken relationships are the hardest bonds in the world to repair, even when a person only desires friendship. Still, an individual should consider contacting their former lover after a few months. It could be a simple text or e-mail asking how that person is doing.
A random encounter out in public poses a decent opportunity, too. Either way, a person should start the conversation slowly and focus upon the present instead of the past.
Focus On Everything But the Past
By keeping the conversation tied to the present, both individuals can focus on how they’ve grown. Acrimonious relationships are best forgotten, and a focused conversation helps achieve that goal.
A former lover is likely to be more receptive to a conversation about the present and future than the past. Obviously, nobody likes bringing up negative memories from a past relationship. At that point, one can bring up the notion of rekindling the friendship again.
Progress Won’t Happen Overnight Here
Sometimes, the other person will agree with that idea, but that’s no guarantee. Even if both parties agree, it’s always a smart idea to take things slowly.
An individual who tries to rush back into the relationship again may have ulterior motives. By proceeding slowly, a bond can be slowly formed once again. A rekindled friendship after an acrimonious relationship can sometimes be stronger than the original bond.
In the end, you’ll experience mixed results attempting to keep a friendship with your significant other after a breakup. Some people will be open to the idea, and others will resist such a notion flat out.
You shouldn’t press the issue right after a relationship ends, but it doesn’t hurt to try reviving that old friendship down the road. For obvious reasons, acrimonious breakups make holding onto a friendship much more difficult, but friendship, or even a more serious relationship, isn’t necessarily impossible.
If you are in pain and confused?
Here’s some good news…
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
There is hope…
Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…
And it’s okay…let me ask?
Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?
I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?
Think about it for a sec…
Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…
“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”
Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.
Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…
You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…
What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?
Do you have these symptoms?
-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.
Do you make these mistakes with your ex?
-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back
…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…
And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?
So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.
“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”
Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…
I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.
And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…
More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.
In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…
Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…
Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.
WARNING: Unconventional Methods!
At this point, I must WARN YOU…STRONGLY WARN YOU…my advice and methods are VERY unconventional. I get relationship counselors and the like REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50 to $100 an hour (sometimes for months and even years) and I can whisper just one of my methods in my friends ear…he DOES IT… And next thing you know… he’s back home, laying back on the couch and watching HOUSE with his fiance on Monday nights.
Now you are free to make up your own mind about me. I just don’t believe that any amount of sitting in a classroom can make up for the REAL WORLD experience that I have under my belt…
I mean, what’s a more valuable experience?…Listening to a lecture on libido? Or BEING THERE when my buddy’s girlfriend is chucking his clothes and skivvies out the bedroom window because she thinks he was with some tart the night before?
I don’t know about you, my money is on the guy with the real world experience any day.
Now, if you are hanging out with me here today, I am guessing you have “relationship troubles” too? If you do…I think I can help…
Here’s how I can help you…
If you have broken up and want to get your guy or gal back, obviously I can’t talk too or be with everyone, I just don’t have enough time…but I have done what I believe to be the next best thing…
I have put my years of experience…into a really easy to follow… love recipe for”getting back together”…and again I forewarn you right now…these are techniques and strategies that are NOT conventional wisdom…and I doubt you have ever read or heard these techniques before.
…and I’ll tell you…
this stuff works!…maybe too well?
Frankly, I get a little freaked out about just how well it works…and worry that it may be used for less than honorable intentions. I mean I want to help GOOD people…I don’t want to help JERKS get girls back that would be better off without them. I do NOT want to help “psycho chick” steal away a married man.
Like a knife, these techniques and principles can be used for great good or grave harm.
This is NOT FOR
-People with severe mental problems
-Other Crazies, Cuckoos or Whack Jobs
Anyway, I have titled the “recipe” simply The Magic Of Making Up…See, it is my opinion that there are really no impossible situations. I have seen women not only wait on a man for months, but take back men that have spent years in prison…and… I have seen men take women back that have had MORE THAN ONE AFFAIR…
And everything else in between! How crazy is that?
You know what?
By now, I bet you really want to see some proof that this works? I would too if I were you.
Here’s PROOF This Works
The best way I know to prove to you that these techniques really work is by giving you some free samples and by showing you testimonials from guys and gals that have already used these techniques successfully.
(Over 50,119 Customers In 77 Countries Have Used This Proven System!)
Works For Long Distance Relationships Too…
Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much you have helped me. I followed the [your guide] after a very bitter breakup of a two-year plus relationship (my first since my divorce from a21-year marriage). It started out being one of the most difficult things I have ever attempted in my life and after the initial two weeks I started feeling stronger each day and better about myself. My ex sent me an apology email three weeks in …By now, I had the strength to actually “sleep on it” and sent him a response the next day…within seconds he called me and asked to see me and was crying because he was glad I was talking to him. We are starting out very slowly again as friends (which is difficult for me since I am still deeply in love with him). An interesting note is this is a long distance relationship and your program still worked!! I am so happy to have him in my life again.
Just wanted to say thank you soooooooooo much for the amazing advice in your book the magic of making up. Yesterday was that all important First Date and it was absolutely fantastic… i just had an email from him saying what a great time he had and how he can’t believe how cool it was to be together. Also back when we split up, your book picked me up out of the mud when I was feeling the worst I ever felt in my life, and doing all the things you advised gave me a life line – now I am so much stronger and happier. I’m still going to take things slowly with my ex (I’m not at the end of your plan yet!!) but I can’t believe how well life is going only 2 months after I felt like I was half dead. Thank you so much.
Ex POPS The Question…
…just an email to say thanks for all the support and knowledge. my boyfriend has just proposed. we are the happiest we have ever been. wedding booked for 2011.
Just wanted to say THANKS!!
Me and my ex are talking now. The letter thing worked, even though I thought it wouldn’t….
Best Money Ever Spent…
You are the best!!! After one day, again one day, my changed attitude had my ex calling and wanting to see me. I won’t take his calls but this showed me that the changes you showed me, worked…you have helped me more than you will ever know…
Thanks and keep up the good work. Best money I ever spent!!!
Casey gets his girl back!
I have good news, my ex did get back with me! She said to me the guy she went out with before was a cover up and she was lying to herself the whole time. Thanks for the support.
got him back we were married again on the 25th of January ….
Not A Scam…
I am beside myself that something actually came of this…
I was SO skeptical putting in $39 to an e-book. I was positive it would be a waste of money, and there wouldn’t even be a book as promised.
PLEASE make it clear somewhere on your page that this is NOT A SCAM and that there are 62 PAGES FOR THIS BOOK, PLUS BONUSES.
I was beside myself.
Thank you so much…
“Impossible Not To Work”
Just wanted to let you know your advice is so rational and so sound… At such a horrible and tough time it is reassuring to read the correct way to handle yourself and go about respecting someone’s wishes (a breakup) but at the same time try to get them back. A lot of people don’t realize how simple and easy it is, patience is a virtue and because of you … I am now dating the love of my life again, we were together for 4 years, split for only 2 1/2 months and are now back together. I did what you… told me was the ONLY option and it worked. If it is true love and meant to be, your advice is impossible not to work. Thanks for the guidance. You’re a good man!
“On her hands and knees”
well it tool some time but i got my girl back. she pretty [much] got down on her hands and knees coming back to me thanks buddy.
Talking Like Friends Again!
I have just downloaded the materials from the website. I am eager to read and learn.
I ALREADY HAVE WONDERFUL NEWS!!
Just from the video via your website, before attaining the reading materials, I
talked with my ex yesterday for 40 MINUTES!! It has been months since we have
talked that long like friends. He even hinted around that we could have a
future together. MY ATTITUDE WAS DIFFERENT!! I WAS FRIENDLY AND ACTED LIKE THE
BREAKUP IS OK!!
Thanks for the free advice and I can’t wait to get to reading!!
I’ll keep in touch.
Guess what!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i took your advice and my ex- boyfriend and i are back together again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and thanks 4 the advice AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am happy to report that my Ex and I are now happily back together. I have to say it was effortlessly done! I thank you for all of your great information.
I have received your guide entitled The Magic of Making Up and was pleasantly surprised with the quality of the advice contained therein…[removed due to sensitive nature]
“Dude It’s Working…”
DUUDE ITS WORKING MAN. After a few weeks of being cool and ok with it, i said we should be friends, and now shes saying im going to give you another chance to get to know me, and if im paying attention to her like i said i would, then ill find the right time to ask her out… thank you!
Can’t Believe This Worked…
OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH! I GOT MY EX BACK JUST AN HOUR AGO ! I CANT BELIEVE THIS WORKED ! !!
Planning A Beach Getaway!
Just wanted to thank you for all your help! Your book is amazing and got my man and I back together within a few weeks of reading it. Now to clarify, it had already been some time since we had even spoken to each other, and I was really starting to miss him. I read your instructions very carefully and fallowed them to the tee, and it worked! … I could not have done it without you! We are now blissfully celebrating are Birthdays together, and are even planning a beach getaway just us two.
Thank you sooooo much!!!
thanks for all you help and encouraging words,quotes and what to do. He proposed and we are finally married thank you very much.
Another “OMG!!! This Works” Note…
OMG!!! This totally worked….nothing I had tried worked and then I texted him that message and he returned my call!! I cannot wait to see where this goes….
Broke Part Of The Wall Between Us…
I downloaded your book and me and my ex talked for an hour and a half. IT was the first time we talked since November of last year! I followed the instructions in the book and am happy with the fact that we were able to just talk even though no progress was made as far as getting back together yet. She is still living with her boyfriend, but I feel like we broke part of the wall between us.
If this book helps me to get her back, I will drive to Arkansas and personally shake your hand! So, on that note, hopefully I’ll see ya soon!
Will in Concord, NC
Married And Happier Than Ever…
Thanks Tdub, I listened to a couple of your emails and used them with my former ex and now we are married and happier than ever you are a God and I owe a lot of this to you.
Have A Date This Friday…
Well, My ex and I are talking a little bit more now. He text me yesterday and said that he missed me. He also told me he still loves me. And we have a date this Friday…[removed due to personal nature]
hey Tdub! how’s it goin’? i watched your video, and i must say, it’s the most *and you’re the most* informative person i know when it comes to what to do about a break up.
Back Together In One Week…
I did buy the book, and got back together in one week. [removed due to personal nature]
Ex Flying Back From England!
Hi there! Wishing you a very happy Christmas too! Thank you so much for your help, your ideas really managed to open my eyes and to see you from another perspective!!i never used to think of it that way. I have learned a lot about myself too, and i now know how to speak to him whilst keeping in control of the situation at the same time. My ex and i had a long distance relationship and he is flying over to see me here in England to try and sort all this mess out!
Regards and many thanks