In the first few days, even weeks, after your breakup, the only thing you can think about is how to get your lover back. It’s understandable. Depending on how long the two of you were together, you’ve shared a lot of life. It’s hard to just walk away and pretend it never happened.
The odds are good that your lover isn’t walking off unaffected either. The only real difference is that your lover has been thinking about this for a while. People don’t walk away from long-term-relationships on a whim. In other words, your ex has had a little more time to deal with the emotional side of the decision than you have.
If you’re struggling to decide if the right choice is to walk away or fight to get your lover back, these questions should help you decide.
Is the Love Still There?
This is a huge question you need to know the answer to before you make a single step to try and win your lover back. While you can only guess about how your ex really feels, you can, and should, explore your own feelings in depth before making your next move. If the love isn’t really there, you should not waste your time and energy, or that of your ex, trying to rekindle something that’s simply not there anymore.
Is the Relationship You Had Truly Worth Rehashing?
Most relationships have their shares of ups and downs. Successful relationships have far more ups in them than downs. Take a look back over the course of your entire relationship. How do the ups compare to the downs for you? Were the good times really good? How bad were the darkest days? Are you willing to experience them again if necessary?
How far are You Really Willing to Go to Make It Work?
You must be willing to do whatever it takes to make it work in most cases for that to happen. Your ex is likely to throw in a few pitfalls and tests along the way, if he or she is even willing to give it a go. Be prepared for them and ready to ace them with flying colors. Don’t even think about letting her see you sweat. But the willingness goes even deeper than passing a few tests. You must be willing to make a few vital changes for the sake of your relationship. But you won’t often find out what they are until the moment arrives. Just be prepared. Some of the changes may not be all that simple to make.
Most importantly, however, is your willingness to be the one to wait. This is often the most difficult, and most necessary, part of winning your lover back. Waiting for the right moment, though, makes all the difference in the world. I can help you understand when that moment is and help you come up with the ideal strategy to turn it into a prime opportunity.
Hello my valued readers. Todays article Lying To Each Other tell no lies;) How would our life look like if we did tell the truth all the time? I think maybe it would be easier not to cover up for lies because the truth will be obvious one day. If we are living parallel lifes and are lying to each other about it there will be a chance to forgivness when the truth are told. Dont be afraid to confess because its not always the end it can be a new beginning also. Its a question of how strong your relationship and love for each other are. Sometimes may hardship make you stronger and to instead living on a lie will surely make you weaker. Only you can make the right decision about these questions based on your own relationship. Reading the following article will perhaps help you.
Everyone tells a lie at some point in time during their lives. There’s no getting around it. Most likely, even George Washington and Abraham Lincoln, both known for their extreme honesty, probably lied on occasion. Of course, there’s no way of knowing how many times these men lied to their wives, but you can bet that since they were human, they did lie sometimes. When it comes to lying, it can be the thing that tears your relationship apart or it can be the thing that actually saves your relationship.
That may sound like an odd statement but it’s quite true. Yes, honesty is something that should be a part of all relationships, but that doesn’t mean that it’s ALWAYS the best policy. For instance, when you ask your husband or boyfriend if you look fat in an outfit and he tells you yes, chances are that there will be at the very least some hurt feelings. Depending on your mood, there may be a true blowout. So, you can see that if he had simply told you that you looked great, then both of you could have gone out and had a lovely evening. This is also known as “telling little white lies.” Their purpose is to keep from hurting someone’s feelings over something insignificant.
Many people are proud to be known as someone that will ALWAYS tell the absolute truth. In fact, these people will even WARN you ahead of time that if you don’t want to know the full truth, then you shouldn’t ask them any questions. That’s all well and good but, in the end, how many true friends do they actually have? Whether you like it or not, there are simply certain instances where it’s better to fib a bit than to really hurt someone by telling the brutal truth.
As with most things, though, there’s another side to this coin. Lying just for the sake of lying or keeping yourself out of trouble isn’t the best idea. This is especially true if there’s a very good chance that you’re going to be caught in your lie. Lying creates some of the worst trust issues that you’ll ever encounter in your life. If you’re in a relationship where your partner tends to lie to you, there may be other dishonest things that he does regarding you. Most likely, his lies are told because he’s trying to cover a secret affair. Of course, there are many other reasons that your partner may lie to you, but that’s typically number one on the list.
Many times, it’s difficult to know when a lie is appropriate or when it’s being used to cover up for some bad behavior. Obviously, the “bad” lies aren’t acceptable and should never be used. Instead, you should simply behave yourself or end the relationship. On the other hand, there are “white” lies that can save hurt feelings and the truth isn’t all that important anyway. It’s just up to you to figure out which is which.
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Today im sharing the article named Looking For Love.
I know a good place to start looking; in your own heart. When you find that gentle and loving feeling inside yourself you want be looking for love because love will be looking for you;) Im not joking. You know love is all about attraction and you will attract what you send out. Be ready and someone will be there for you sooner or later. Meanwhile prepare yourself by reading this article.
Best of Luck in Love and Life
You probably remember that really old song called “Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places.” This could describe the search that many people go on to find that elusive love that they’ve been hoping will find its way to them. There are too many people in the world that do keep trying to find love in all of the worst places they possibly could. If this is you, it’s possible that you don’t even realize you’re doing it. What you probably do realize, though, is that you keep striking out over and over again in the game of love.
Are you hoping to find that special connection with someone by indulging in bar hopping? While that almost always works when it comes to one night stands, you probably won’t find your true love in a night club. That’s not to say that it won’t ever happen, but the odds are usually not that high when it comes to long term romance and forever after relationships. It’s fun to go to out dancing and having a great time. Just keep in mind that having fun is usually all that happens in a night club.
If you’re trying to find someone to form a true relationship with, it’s good to, sometimes, get to know that person from the inside out. In that way, you can discover what sort of person he is and whether or not you’ve got anything in common. Many people choose to do this through online contact. This can be done through chat rooms as well as the explosion of online dating websites. These sites offer the opportunity for people looking for potential partners to scan personal profiles, list their own, and match up with website members that they seem compatible with. This is a method that has worked successfully in a lot of cases.
In this same vein, there are also match making companies that take charge of connecting people with those that are most compatible with each other. Of course, these companies cost a lot of money to sign on with them. For many people, though, there can’t be a price put on the chance for a healthy, loving and long term relationship. Some people save up to pay the fee so that they can join one of these services.
You can also join various clubs and community groups where others have the same interests as you. These are the very places that you’ll find someone that can end up being the one you’ve been searching for all this time. Many communities have singles events and groups that you can join so that you can interact and become acquainted with other singles that are also looking for love. This method can be more effective than those you pay for.
Just keep in mind that when you’re looking for love, pay close attention to the places you’re using to hunt. That can tell you a lot about what your chances of success will end up being.
Thanx for reading and have a pleasant day!
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Only two days before Christmas and i hope you are all feeling well. Todays article headline The Trouble With Being Beautiful seems contradictory. Isn`t beauty what we all are longing for and therefore we think that beautiful people are happy and live a fulfilled life. I think beauty sometimes could get in the way for success in the meaning that they are preconceptions among us. As the article says a beautiful face and a beautiful mind is possible. Most of the time i do think it is easier for beautiful people in life but unfortunately beauty dont always go hand in hand with self confidence. There are a lot of beautiful people out there who need self confidence even if it may seems strange. However i think the beauty of the heart is most important and that beauty we all do carry inside us and when we share that by supporting others our real beauty shine through.
There are many beautiful women in the world that are stuck home and alone on the weekends simply because of their beauty. This might make no sense whatsoever to those ordinary and even physically unattractive women out there. However, women like this are more likely to have a date when they need and want it, or they’re in a relationship with the guy of their dreams. How is something like that even possible?
Believe it or not, it’s very possible. The age old problem of men that fear beauty in a woman never goes away. Even great looking guys can look at a stunning woman and figure that she’s just too gorgeous for him and would never agree to go out with him. So you can imagine how ordinary men feel about risking an approach to a beautiful woman. Therefore, it’s not unusual at all for a great looking woman to be sitting all alone in a bar. The men are too afraid of rejection to approach her. She, on the other hand, may be dying for one of them to just come over and talk to her. The lesson here is that beautiful women may also be beautiful on the inside, too.
Then, there are the divas. These are gorgeous women that know how hot they are and they really haven’t found anyone that they deem worthy of dating. They know that they can call any guy they want or walk up to any guy in any location and be able to reel them in. This is a problem of a different sort. These women may be lonely due to their incredible beauty, but it’s their own fault. They choose to be high and mighty bitches and there’s really no need to feel sorry for them.
Beauty isn’t always on the inside of a great looking woman. These women are a bit different than the divas. The divas kind of know what they’re doing and they’re not always horrible. They just feel a bit entitled because of their beauty. On the other hand, women that are beautiful on the outside many times harbor a soul that’s black as night. These women are alone because they’re simply horrible creatures and have no clue how to treat another human being. They’re manipulative and only pretend to be nice when they want something. These are women to be avoided at all costs.
Now, for guys that are on the lookout for a woman to get to know a little better, don’t immediately discount beautiful women. If that gorgeous woman sitting in the bar is giving you some encouraging glances and smiles, then you need to go for it! Lock away those nerves and sidle on over to her. You’ll know within a short few minutes whether or not she’s interested, and you don’t have to be humiliated in order to find out. Chances are good that she’ll be very receptive, especially if she was checking you out first. Give it a shot or you’ll wonder what might have been.
Remember your all beautiful and you all are worthy of a life in love and hapiness!
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Good day to you this thursday before the Christmas week. There are a little to plan and fix before Santa Claus is coming and it could sometimes feel a bit overwhelming. I do appreciate you taking the time to read my blog and hopefully it gives you hope for a coming relation or for the relation you have. Todays article Be Yourself And Only Yourself tells a lot already in the headline. In life we should not try to copy some else; there are only one of you and you are unique. Use what you have and be who you are, then you will attract both the right situations and the right relations for you to live a happy life which we all deserve.
Blessings to you!
There are a lot of guys out there that have seen television shows and movies that have one of those dating guru type guys promising to get you any woman you ever wanted to fall madly in love with you. While these “guru’s” are making quite a lot of money with their promises, what they aren’t telling you is that it’s all a scam. They want you to give them their hard earned money so that they can go out and buy things while you sit at home reading their information.
For the most part, these guys promise you the world but very rarely ever deliver. In fact, if you actually look at what they are trying to sell you, you will find that all you have to do is go out and act like a jackass, and you will get laid every night of the week. The truth is, any woman that would fall for any guy that acts that way deserves the relationship she ends up with. If you want to have a real relationship, then you are going to have to be yourself.
Being yourself is one of the hardest and most important things that you can do in order to gain the trust that a relationship is based on. If you go into the beginning of a relationship with her thinking you are some flashy rich guy, and it turns out that you drive a Pinto and live in your mother’s basement, when she finds out you can pretty much kiss any chance of being with her again goodbye. Women don’t want to be lied to, even if it’s something small, and starting a relationship out this way will cause it to end very quickly.
All those gurus want you to ACT like you are confident when the truth is you should BE confident. There is no reason for you to act like you are confident it you really aren’t. The woman you are interested in is going to know right away if you have the confidence to be with her or not. Think of it as eating fast food your entire life and suddenly finding yourself in a 5 start French restaurant, ordering wine in French. The waiter is going to know that you aren’t from France, and she is going to know you aren’t confident.
The best thing to do is be truthful and honest with her. Tell her that you don’t have the money to go out to a fancy restaurant, then turn around and make a romantic picnic out of things you can afford. Do something small but elegant to show her who you are on the inside and you will find that it will impress her much more than trying to pull off the bad boy routine. The choice is yours, but making it the right choice is what she deserves from you. If you feel you need to boost your self confidence there are a review below for you to read…
When I hear about people having dating and relationship problems, I hear every excuse: no time for a relationship, focusing on my career right now, haven’t found the right one yet, not living in the right place to meet nice men or women, haven’t met one worth keeping, or you simply don’t know why love and attraction has eluded you and you feel frustrated.
For all the people that come to me with dating and attraction frustrations, there are as many products out there that promise you the holy grail. They promise to take you in hand and learn how to dress, how to deliver openers and one-liners, they tell you how to behave, how to maximize your statistical chances with the opposite sex, and even how to discover a previously unknown dating rule. Needless to say, when I see a new product come across my desk, I am often a little hesitant to get excited.
At least until now. Slade Shaw from Meet Your Sweet.com has just released a new ebook about achieving supreme self confidence that is going to change your dating life, as well as any other social situations you encounter. Want to develop personal confidence and increased self awareness? Want to overcome self-doubt? Want to develop a social identity and life direction? How about tips to overcome embarrassing social situations and making conversation with strangers?
It’s all here in Slade Shaw’s latest book, “Supreme Self Confidence in Dating, Relationships & Social Situations.”
This 184-page ebook is literally bursting with advice about how to turn around your personal confidence, your social confidence, your professional confidence, your sexual confidence, and a host of concrete confidence-building techniques that will take this advice beyond the page and apply it to your life with fast and life-changing results!
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Do you want to simply accept what life offers you, or do you want to set your own destiny? Are you going to let your life success be determined by the efforts of others, or are you going to make wonderful things happen and inspire others on the way?
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Isn´t it lovely to have bonus children as we say in Sweden; meaning that your partner had children before meeting you. It can surely be a large family if both has children since before. It can be a problem if you have no idea about it from the beginning and then suddenly when the relation gets serious you are involved with a bigger responsibility then you knew. However i think children enriches us and our relationship in so many ways. There will of course be some kind of relation with the ex if there are children involved and its important to dissolve in a positive manner aswell. So read on and get some great advice from the article The Era Of Ready Made Families.
Have a Blessed day!
These days with the divorce rate out of the ball park, you can expect to run into lots of potential dating partners that already have children of their own. Unless you’re in your teens, the probability of dating someone with children is very high. Sometimes, even teens already have at least one child, but that’s an entirely new subject.
What you have to decide when you’re looking for someone to date and possibly form a relationship with is how you feel about the possibility of a ready made family. You may be fine with it, particularly if you like kids and are hoping to have a big family. It can also work out if you love kids but, for some reason, can’t have your own. In that case, it would be a dream come true. You could have the family you always wanted in spite of any personal physical difficulties.
On the other hand, suppose you’re someone that hasn’t really decided if you even want to have children. You’re just starting to get on your feet with your career and you hadn’t exactly planned on being responsible for children until you’re a bit more settled in your life. It was your intention to enjoy some couples’ time with someone before going into all of the serious stuff such as marriage and children. That’s a smart way to think, too, because you may as well face it; children change your life drastically forever. You pretty much need to do as many of the things you always wanted to do early in life and before you commit to having children.
Now, suppose you meet someone that you really like and connect with. You spend some time talking with him and find that you have so many things in common that you feel you’ve met someone that has true potential for a relationship. Then he drops the little bomb on you that he’s divorced and the father of 2 young children. At first, you think well, it won’t be that bad because he probably only has them part of the time. That’s when he further challenges you with the fact that he has primary custody of them and his ex-wife gets visitation. Now what will you do?
That situation can be a tough one because now you really like this guy and he’s thrown you the biggest curve ball he could have. This is a situation that you really need to think through. On the one hand, you know you’re not ready to be a full time mother. But, again, this guy is so nice and you really do connect in a positive way.
It’s a big decision and one that you shouldn’t make lightly. There will definitely be some weighing on either side because you don’t want to make the wrong choice. One more thing to keep in mind, though, is that even if you really do like this man, you’ve just met him so you haven’t had time to truly become attached. If you have some serious doubts about jumping into a readymade family, it may be better to cut your losses before it’s too late. Every relation is somehow about comittment and that can frighten some of us enough to miss out on the love of our lives. There are some important facts about comittment that are essential to know in the next chapter below.
Like me, you’ve probably experienced lots of rough times in trying to find “The One”.
I get a lot of products come across my desk promising me that they can give me the relationship of my dreams, so I’m skeptical when someone tells me there’s a new product available that is different from the rest.
However, I was pleasantly surprised when I received a copy of Amy Waterman’s “Connect And Commit – Taking Things to the Next Level of Commitment.” This is another course released by the Meet Your Sweet Network, authors and creators of a host of dating and relationships products that are quickly carving themselves a niche in the online dating advice market.
So what makes this course different?
Well the first thing that struck me was the size of this course. At 330+ pages, its one of the most comprehensive commitment courses I have seen. From what I know of Amy Waterman, she’s no lightweight in the online dating market, and this course is typical of her usual high standard and attention to detail.
The next thing that struck me is the detail. The ebooks she has created are attractively laid out and graphically designed, and I know from the first page that this is a publication that takes itself seriously. I was impressed!
In addition to the ebooks, which she has split into 3 parts for easier downloading, she has recorded the entire ebook in high-quality audio. Add to that over 4 hours of interviews she has done with some of the world’s foremost dating and relationship experts, and you have a course that really delivers you advice and secrets that are going to maximize your chances of commitment.
Amy covers crucial commitment topics such as:
– Learning some facts and figures about commitment
– Understanding the stages of commitment
– Discovering what commitment means to you and your partner
– Knowing if this is the person you want to commit to
– Getting the right mindset for commitment
– Mastering the magic of romance
– Knowing what to do when reality hits
– Surviving the power struggle in your relationship
– Deciding how and whether you should stick with the relationship
– Choosing a conscious relationship
After reading through this course and listening to the audio interviews, I can heartily recommend this course for people who are wanting more commitment in their life, whether they are single and looking for a relationship, or wanting to take their current relationship to the next level. There is something in this course for everybody, regardless of their relationship status. This is a life-changing course.
It has changed the way I look at commitment in my own life, and I know it will maximize your chances of relationship and commitment success. Another high-quality addition to the Meet Your Sweet library of dating and relationship resources.
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All the best,