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What If Dating is Dead For Women Professionals?

What If Dating is Dead For Women Professionals?

by Max Wright

The advent of speed dating and match making services shows how tired we are of trying to find a soul mate by dating. Busy women who are invested in a rewarding professional career are particularly frustrated with the waste of time and effort associated with the “cast a wide net” approach to dating. I finally met my soul mate and got married when I ditched dating for the worn-out thing it is and pursued a different course.

Stop looking for quality mates in low quality places. The night life and bar scene isn’t the place to find the man of your dreams who wants to have a loving, long term relationship. Look in places where quality people invest their time. Do you like athletics? Start getting involved with running, cycling, swimming, or tennis clubs to name a few. Are you religious? Start going to church and looking for great men (that’s where I found my beautiful wife 13 years ago).

You’re likely to find a man who shares your interests if you do this, and it will be EASY to find common ground, you’ll start by doing what you both enjoy then let it naturally branch out to other areas of life. I met my wife at church and we started running together – 13 years later we’re still going to church together but now we play tennis or bike (kids and running injuries made us shift gears) but we’re still active together.

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What If Dating Is Dead For Women Professionals?

I was deliberate with my relationship. It may sound old fashioned but I started the relationship because I wanted to find an amazing wife, not have fun with a girlfriend. I pursued my wife to see if she was a good fit for me and vice-versa. It took us six months to answer that question and get married. Know what you must have in a relationship and what you can’t tolerate in a relationship. If you know this before you get involved, it will make it easy to determine if it is a good fit. Do not waste your time in relationships that are not good fits – it’s nearly impossible to change people, people change on their own. Love them or leave them for who they are, not for who you want them to be.

Respect yourself enough to save your love for your future husband. Don’t give away your physical affection to men who don’t love you enough to marry you. Getting physical will blur your judgment and his, and you won’t be able to make a good decision. You’ll be able to grow your physical relationship just fine after you’re married. Don’t worry, you can work through any issues if you are committed and in a loving relationship.

I hope your you are able to see some good first date tips based on what we’ve talked about. Remember, whatever you do, don’t be boring on a first date!

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Jonathan is a student of the relationship between men and women. See his thoughts at http://www.igirlgetsring.com/category/dating-tips/ and first date tips at http://www.igirlgetsring.com/first-date-tip-dont-boring/ which is his blog.

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Dating tips:Be Upfront About The Relationship You Want

Too many people enter the dating game not fully sure of what they actually want to get out of it.

Granted, most women are hoping to find Mr. Right so they can get married, settle down and start a family. However, not all women are looking for that type of relationship. Many are simply looking for someone that they can have fun with and relate to on an equal footing. Others only want someone to have a physical relationship with and aren’t actually interested in being involved with anyone.

Nothing is wrong with any of those reasons for dating.

In fact, if all people wanted the exact same things in life, this would be a rather boring world to live in. Everyone is different in their own way and that’s what makes things interesting. However, if you’re looking for a particular type of relationship, it’s only fair that you let potential partners know exactly what you’re looking for. In that way, if you’re someone that wants the white picket fence, you won’t waste your time and the time of someone that only wants to date casually. It also keeps you from getting your feelings hurt.

Also, consider the age group that you’ll fall into when looking for a great person to begin dating with.

Like it or not, there are certain things that each age group is looking for in the majority. For instance, if you’re in your mid -30s, you’re probably going to find that there are a lot of divorced people in this group. They’ve already done the marriage and family thing and will usually come with some “extras,” such as children. So if you want to find Mr. Right and settle down but aren’t necessarily looking for a readymade family, you probably want to get that clear from the outset.

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Younger age groups are still in that phase of just having some fun.

They want to party, take trips and just have fun in general when they’re not working. The people that fall into this group are typically not looking for anything truly serious, although they’re starting to understand that they’ll need to be a bit more particular in their dating partners. It just depends on which side of 25 they are.

Older groups such as 40, 50 and 60 years old are usually not hoping to start a family, especially women because by the time they hit 50 they’re going to have to adopt if they want children. Some men like the idea of being a father later in life but most are ready to start enjoying the things that having a career for several years has enabled them to do. They want to travel extensively and just enjoy life.

Then there’s the group that contains all ages. These can get a bit dicey because you can have a 45 year old woman dating a 25 year old man and their future plans can be totally different. On the other hand, they can be very similar in the present but change drastically in the future. So you need to be careful with that.
The most important thing is that, no matter what your age, you’re clear about the things you want in a relationship before you start dating and then there can be no misunderstandings later.

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I hope you are all feeling well this sunday and have had some holidays to enjoy over the christmas and new year.  Todays article will be about dating online. Its possible these days to meet a great partner through online dating. I have a couple of friends myself who finally has met someone this way. But as with everything else there are some pitfalls to avoid which you can read about in todays article Dating Online

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There once was a time when you had to go out in public in order to find a date, but these days, it’s usually done online rather than out in public. Social networking sites and chat rooms have taken over the dating pool that used to be in bars and clubs and moved it right into the Twenty First Century. In this way, you can stay at home and be comfortable while still finding people that you can go out with over the weekend. Now, that can actually sound interesting to some younger individuals out there, it can be a bit of a letdown for the older generations.

The first thing you are going to need to understand is that you have no idea who you are actually talking to online. For all you know, it could be a 60 year old man talking to you on the other end of the computer. Even though you can ask for a recent picture, they can be faked fairly easily these days, so you still won’t be able to guarantee the person you are talking to is real or not. The internet is a great place to exaggerate about yourself as well, and many people tend to do that.

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One thing that you can do to make sure who you are talking to isn’t lying about themselves is to use a web cam together. In this way, they can see you and you can see them, so there is no hiding who you are talking to. Of course, you don’t want things in the background to let people know where you might be. This will make sure that the person you are talking to isn’t a stalker that’s out to get you or something. Things like that happen mostly in the movies, but you never know who you might come into contact with these days.

Online stalking has become quite an issue in the last decade or so, and that is something that can cause you some problems. You have to make sure that the person you are talking to doesn’t have bad intent towards you, but it’s hard to do that when you don’t actually know them. Now, you can check out some people online through free websites that do a basic background check, although you need to have some personal information in order to make sure you get the right details.

Finding people online is a great opportunity these days because you have a greater chance of meeting someone that might be in a different area than you. This opens up the relationship pool quite a lot, whereas before, you were stuck with the people that were in your local area. Playing the odds might give you the best possible chance of happiness, but you have to be extra careful with who you are talking to and what kind of information you give to them. Being happy is important, but giving out personal information online to people you don’t know could come back to bite you later on.

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