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Top 7 Tips For Getting Your Lover Back

Is getting your lover back what you really want?

Do you truly miss this person’s mind, body, and soul? Or do you simply want them back because you want what you no longer have? See the difference?

Regardless of how you are currently feeling, now is the time to assess the situation objectively and figure it out without letting your emotions get in the way.

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Look at the big picture of you and your ex – past and present. Now, take yourself (and your emotions) out of the picture. What advice would you give yourself about your current situation?

Understandably, this is somewhat difficult to do when you are drowning in a river of tears. But if you can get to this point, you will be able to clearly see what you should do; make up or move on. If you decide to reconcile with your ex, follow these steps to increase your chances of success.

1. Maintain Your Dignity and Do Not Beg

Extreme begging or desperate behavior will only make you look pathetic in the eyes of your ex lover. Also, this may induce feelings of resentment later on. How would you feel if they did this to you? This is the wrong approach. At all costs maintain your dignity.

2. If Need Be, Apologize to Your Lover

Are you one of these people that never apologize or admit when they are wrong? If so, you need to come clean and swallow your pride. Chances are you’ll probably be instantly forgiven by getting off your high-horse, coming down to Earth, and actually saying sorry for whatever it is you did. Not only that, your ex will likely be blown away and see you in a whole new light (respect).

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3. Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Talk is cheap, while actions demonstrate motivation. Therefore, stop telling your ex how much you’ve changed – show them. Promises are just dust in the wind if you don’t put action behind them – especially if your ex has heard it all before.

4. Emotional Blackmail Never Works

It may not feel like it right now, but you can live just fine without your ex lover. Letting your emotions get completely out of control and using them against your ex with threats and/or manipulations will likely send them running in the other direction. Also, it will highlight the exact reasons why you’re probably having problems in the first place. Do you want to reunite with someone who is sincere and hopeful about making up with you, or with someone who feels negatively pressured into reconciling with you?

5. Stop Playing Games

Playing games such as pretending you’re with someone new in order to make your ex jealous or even something creepy like stalking, will not bring your lover back. This may backfire once you do get back together and may ultimately harm their feelings of trust in you.

6. Romance Your Way Back to Your Lover

By all appearances, romancing your ex with the intention of getting them back can seem a bit manipulative. However, if performed with a sincere and genuine heart, by all means go for it. Send your ex authentic love letters, gifts you know they will enjoy, or simply remind them of the good times you two once shared. Do not focus on what went wrong, but rather what went right. Remind them either through words or actions the reasons you two got together that initially sparked your attraction to one another.

7. Let Go of the Past

Whatever the reasons were for the breakup (whether you walked away or them), you have to let it go. Let the past go or you will never have a future. People change. Nobody’s perfect. What’s done is done. Forgive and move forward to increase your chances of a loving reunion.

Final Thoughts

You are going to be fine no matter what. Truly, you must make yourself happy before you can make anyone else happy. Also, if getting your ex back means they are unwilling to meet you halfway, then perhaps it’s time to say goodbye. No relationship is worth sacrificing your soul or happiness.

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Can You Buy Your Lover Back?

Have you ever resorted to expensive gifts to make up for major misdeeds in the course of your relationship? Many men offer costly gifts to the women they love in hopes of smoothing things over and making it right. It may have started out with flowers and chocolates. Over time, the practice escalated to expensive jewelry, cars, homes, and vacations. The bigger the misdeed, the bigger the buyoff.
Unfortunately, this practice often does more harm for the relationship than good. The relationship becomes a series of highs and lows with each one attempting to outdo the other. Eventually, you’re either out of money or in debt so big that even more problems are being created. All the while, nothing is getting solved. It’s just being temporarily swept underneath the discarded ribbons, bows, and tissue paper.
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Here are a few questions to help you get a handle on your gift buying tendencies whenever relationship problems arise.

How Much Will it Really Cost to Buy Your Lover Back?

The costs are not always measured in dollars and cents. Men, especially, will gladly pay the price in dollars to avoid the emotional confrontation required to deal with the real, underlying problem in the relationship. Buying gifts provides a quick, albeit temporary, fix for a problem they don’t really want to face. The thing is, the problem is still there the next time mistakes are made and the price tag for avoidance keeps getting bigger and bigger every single time.

How Much Have You Spent Already to get Your Lover Back ?

The other point to consider is this. How much money have you already spent trying to delay the inevitable? The longer you attempt to put it off, the harder it’s going to be to deal with when the time comes. It’s kind of like an onion. The core problem is still there. Unfortunately, you’re going to have to go in and peel each individual layer, uncovering new problems and hurt feelings along the way, to get to the heart of the matter when the time does arrive to fix the problem or walk away. That money could solve many problems you’re having and would have likely been much better spent building your future together rather than covering up the “sins of the past.”
How much can you really afford to spend? This is the final question for many men in your shoes. There’s never really enough, is there? Love is something that can’t be bought. Forgiveness can’t really be purchased either. Women may joke about it, but the truth is they’d rather fix the problems and save the relationship the old-fashioned way than through gifts and bribes. She’s MUCH rather receive gifts from you as tokens of love from you instead of buyoffs for her affections.

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How To Get Lover Back:Romantic Evenings At Home

Romantic Evenings At Home

In most parts of the world, the cold weather has settled in. Other areas are experiencing what can only be described as a near depression in the economy. These two things, when combined, make romantic evenings at home a magnificent idea. Not only do you not have to go out in freezing temperatures but you also don’t have to spend a lot of money when you and your partner want to enjoy a romantic evening together. Following are some great ways to have a fun and romantic evening without having to leave the warmth of your home or spend a small fortune:

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Movie Night: This is a pretty typical as well as popular way for couples to enjoy a romantic evening by a cozy fire. Rent or haul out an owned DVD that both of you like. It can be a romantic movie or a nerve jangler that will give you a reason to stay wrapped up together on the couch. You can even make it more fun by adding hotdogs that you roast on your own in the fire along with some chips. Popcorn works as a filling snack, too.

Romantic Dinner: Bring out the candles for the table. Broil some steaks to serve with a salad and baked potato. Wine also helps to round out the meal. Put on some sexy music to play low in the background and you’re all set. Dessert can be a really sexy event with a chocolate fondue and some strawberries for dipping. Dip the strawberries and feed them to each other as you top off the night with some truly hot lovemaking either in the bedroom or on the floor in front of the fireplace.

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Reading in Bed: This is sexier than it sounds. Both of you choose a really hot book that has been a turn on in the past for you. Prepare for it with something like a bubble bath or shower together beforehand. Don’t cheat, though. Just use it as really intense foreplay. You can light some candles around the bedroom and then cuddle up in bed together with the chosen sexy book. Take turns reading it to each other, possibly starting to mimic some of the things you’re reading in the book. This can turn into a REALLY hot night.

Roleplaying: If you and your partner are rather adventurous sexually, you may enjoy indulging in some roleplaying to heat up a really cold night. It will take a bit of preparation because you’ll want all of the necessary supplies at hand. Then turn off all the phones and hide your vehicles. Pretend you’re not at home. Of course, if it’s really THAT cold outside, you probably won’t have to worry about anyone just showing up to disturb you. The point is to have the time of your lives together in a warm home.

Those are some simple and creative ideas to get you going. You’ll most likely come up with some pretty hot ones of your own. Don’t hesitate to indulge in some of your favorite fantasies as you go along.

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