Too Many Break Ups

While in the midst of a series of break ups, people see them as eternal and feel as though nothing will ever change. The sensation may cause one to question if they have made the right decision.

An important thing to remember is patterns shift without warning. One might begin questioning if they have gone through too many break ups following their most recent one.

This sensation will be heightened if several have occurred within a short period of time. Spotting warning signs of a concerning trend may signify a deeper issue. Identifying them becomes critical before making any changes.

Addicted to the New

Some people crave new relationships and will end a relationship to experience something new. Those pursuing novelty may not even realize the pattern in their behavior. Let’s look at some reasons the new might appeal to a person.

* Fresh Stories: After hearing repeated tales from the same person, the seeker will get to hear things they never have. A new teller might even spice up similar stories which have grown stale.

* Loss of Interest: Those entranced by originality may tune out of the relationship when things grow familiar. With this lack, they seek something to spice things up.

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* Opportunity for Reinvention: Sometimes they also might wish to change their own narrative. As with their partner, telling one’s history grows tedious for themselves as well. They can embellish new things when they retell it to someone different.

Lacking Growth

Someone who chronically bails from the couple could believe they have reached the zenith of the relationship. Like with the quest for the new, they feel the next person possesses the correct key to unlock all their potential. A sad truth is the individual responsible for their stagnation is often not the other person. Rarely does the person ending things repeatedly have the courage to address the deeper truth. Connected to this viewpoint is how the person uses their romantic partners for their own end. Rather than embracing who they want to become and pursing the goal, they look for another person to fill the hole within themselves.

Afraid of What’s Next

Being too scared to move deeper into a committed relationship is a common problem for those who chronically terminate relationships. Most of the greatest concerns facing the couple prove more imagined than real. Commitment allows for deeper growth. Love becomes richer when couples display vulnerability with one another. One of the sad truths is such a level can only be achieved by those who remain together and unafraid of what the future holds for them.

One of the most important things to remember is too many break ups does not denote a number. A person can have a single relationship end causing them to surrender their hope of finding someone they love and who loves them. Also, the only time the number is too many is after finding the right person. Be aware of the reasons for each break up, do not fall into an unhealthy pattern and trust in the possibility of love. If you Want Him Back, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…

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Not Wanting Your Ex Back

Everyone possesses a fantasy where an ex comes crawling back bereft of pride longing to be accepted back. The reason this is such a prevalent dream stems from it not happening too often. If every ex wanted to reconnect, a single cycle of couples would exist. Because real life is always more complicated, one needs a plan to gracefully address how to handle the unwanted advances of an ex back.

The Initial Salvo

This generally comes out of the blue. If one remains in contact with an ex, they are fully award of what is going on and there should not be a request for reestablishing the relationship. Taking important steps at the outset are key when receiving the call, email or visit where an ex pleads to come back.

* Take Time: Just because they have formulated their thoughts and feelings does not mean one must respond in the now. Despite being tempted to shut things down immediately, asking for some time to think about what has been said will give the correct impression and allow them to feel as though their request has been seriously pondered.

* Consider the Request: While easy to think you know how you feel, you should deeply debate what is being asked. This is done to accurate assess what you feel and why. You can address their concerns in advance in later steps. Also, it might prevent you from looking foolish should you decide after a short time you want them back. It does not hurt to think things through.

The Response

Your answer will be the most fraught with tension. They have been waiting for it. You are placing yourself at risk and possibly acting as someone who could be characterized negatively. Use these as guideposts in giving your reply to the request.

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* Be firm and honest about how you feel. Being too soft will only leave the door open for another uncomfortable conversation.
* Explain things from your side. They have come to you and do not know what you think or feel, so they need to understand.
* Keep it short and kind. Acting like you could not think less of them is unnecessary. Regardless of how you feel, they were vulnerable with you, so respect them.

Resist the Push  Ex Back

After the response, your ex is likely to come back again or argue particular points. This will happen because they have already put themselves out there once and feel less concerned about doing it again. Think about all the times you have tried something challenging. After discovering you did not die and it was far easier than expected, there is less internal resistance to do it a second time.

For this reason, you will need to fight against a plan to be manipulated. Your ex might not be intending to do it, but hearing no triggers a combative response in people. They will access deep reserves. Also, they may use arguments deemed too rude or base during their opening request. You will need to rely on yourself, what you know and the inner strength you have developed.

Telling someone no in any context is hard. This is why we couch so many things with language designed to soften the blow. In this setting, your firmness is the kindest thing you can offer to your ex while being careful not to dip into cruelty. If you care about them, you will release them and yourself to a future free of second guessing. If you Want Him Back, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…Click Here…

Loneliness versus Missing an Ex

It can be tricky to know from where feelings arise. This becomes even truer after a relationship has ended because drastic alterations may occur. Being clear on what one feels and the reason for those feelings prove necessary before pursuing love again, even with an ex. For this reason, one needs to determine some key symptoms of loneliness, missing one’s ex and differentiating between the two.

Symptoms of Loneliness:

The similarity between garden variety loneliness and severe conditions like depression exist because of their similar presentations. If asked, those who deal with depression on a regular basis might note loneliness as a component. Let’s see how loneliness might exhibit itself.

* Isolation: Those fighting with loneliness want to be alone either because they do not believe they possess the strength to interact with others or they are not worthy of being in contact with others. They might say things like they would not know why it would matter. They might be quick to blame others for feeling utterly alone.

* Controlling Activities: Loneliness sufferers seek activities they can control. Such activities like watching old shows that brought them comfort during childhood or reading a book that brought them pleasure in the past happen entirely alone. Those who interact often do so online with a bit of physical and emotional distance. One example might be playing an online co opt game where they do not have to be in the same room with someone.

* Physical Maladies: Always being tired, not sleeping well and having cold like symptoms can occur when someone feels lonely. One should know that truly physical issues are often resolved by typical behaviors. A good night’s sleep corrects feeling tired. Over the counter medication knocks out the creep of a cold. If these things persist, there might be an emotional component.

It is important to remember, even if something starts off as routine loneliness, one should not ignore an escalation of these things. When one or more of symptom persists without improvement or worsens, one should seek professional medical attention to determine if the condition has escalated to depression requiring direct medical intervention. Be smart and get help.

Symptoms of Missing an Ex

As with loneliness, the keen sense of loss is likely to create an ache. Witnessing the way these feeling manifest and empowered by certain actions helps to define them. Sometimes there are only subtle nuances.

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* Longing for Interaction: This might occur at random times. Often familiar behaviors like talking with them or sending them a text will come to mind. In some cases, one could go so far as to get the phone out before realizing it.

* Replaying Old Memories: The mind is funny because it will not hesitate to go back to pleasant things. When over an ex, this stops after a few weeks and things like pictures or recordings fail to super charge the memories. If missing them deeply, one might keep rewinding time to relive those moments.

* Emotional Bumps: When hearing news or running into an ex unexpectedly, one might get an emotional jolt. Sometimes these can be negative feelings depending on the way things were left. But after an amicable break up, ongoing love and warmth is not an unusual response.

Differentiating Between the Two

The simplest way to determine if simple loneliness or missing an ex causes one’s current state is by viewing the focus of the thoughts. Lonely people end up concentrating on themselves. They will seek to protect themselves from feeling certain things or future pain. The person longing to rekindle romance will be thinking about the other person. Granted, there can be a sense of nostalgia when considering returning to an ex. One will need to decide if they want the past or the future because one is possible and the other can never be again.

In the end, loneliness and missing someone are merely states of being. Another person will never alleviate all the things a person feels and questions about themselves. Their best hope is to see if they think they would be better entering a new relationship with the same person or letting the relationship go. Growth only happens in a forward direction, so that’s where you need to be looking.  If you Want Love Back, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…Click Here…

Accepting Break Up Responsibility

When a relationship ends, most people wish to move on as soon as possible due to the pain tied to the sudden loss. The temptation should be acknowledged and avoided because of the lessons possible through learning how to accept one’s role in the dissolution of the relationship and the benefits brought about by the assessment. The process will be challenging. Out of adversity, strength, compassion and sweetness can be discovered greater than powering through to the end as quickly one is able.

How to Accept Responsibility

Assess: The relationship need a complete review of the positives and negatives. This step can be facilitated by making a list. It can start on a single sheet of paper with a line down the middle. Another good way to workout the nature of the relationships would be to create a narrative or biography of the relationship. Bios of interesting people unearth the good and not so great aspects of them laying them bare for everyone to see.

Determine Your Part: Once everything is out, then some of the hardest work begins. People in relationship have a hand in every conflict. An argument could be made for certain relational impairments being more on one partner than the other like those struggling with substance abuse or chronic philandering. While true on the surface, a wise person will look for ways they may have made alterations to themselves or their response. Regardless of the seriousness of the condition, this is not about beating oneself up or saving the relationship. It is about identifying an aspect of how a person acts in relationship.

Watch for Patterns: Behaviors, especially those learned to cope with stress, follow a clear line and arise repeatedly. This does not meant they will manifest the same way every time because there will be the dynamic of a new partner. Think about someone who has difficulty with conversations about intimate matters. A pattern might be avoidance. With one person, it might be demonstrated in storming out during the conversation. While with another, one could take the offensive and distract their partner by bringing up the other person’s behaviors. In both situations, they are avoiding having a conversation that makes them uncomfortable.

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Acknowledge: Then comes the hard part of owning up to these behaviors and patterns. People often do not have a hard time admitting when they have done something wrong. It gets far trickier when having to state how those acts might have negatively impacted the relationship and possibly hobbling it. One need not overly chastise themselves or create a sense of shame about them. Acknowledge and be aware moving forward.

Benefits for You and Everyone Else, Including the Ex

This process is supremely difficult. One requires strong motivation to do the work before them. Let’s look at a couple of ways this act might help in the now and in the future.

* Understanding: By seeing how one behaves, changes can be made to improve communication with a partner.
* Stopping Things in the Moment: Short circuiting a fight by seeing a common behavior will take the pressure off.
* Seeing Yourself: Knowing one’s own foibles will allow you to extend grace to yourself, family, friends and even your ex.
* Telling on Yourself: One need not hide or create a false front when they know they screw up.
* Freeing Others: If someone sees you take responsibility, they are more likely to be open about their own shortcomings.
* Starting Change: The first step to improve things is always accepting the truth about the now before moving forward.

Ultimately, the act of accepting responsibility is hard. No one would ever say it was anything else. Because of the challenge, one needs strength and persistence. The good news is it gets easier and often the hardest thing is to get started. So get started now because it will be better once you do. If you Want Him Back, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one tryingClick Here…

Pitfalls of Trying to Buy Love

Movies create the expectation with enough money one can have whatever they want. While this may appear true in a capitalistic society where it seems everything is for sale, the capturing of another person’s heart refuses to fall into this category. One needs to avoid the temptation because of false expectations, lack of validity and subtle forms of this behavior place more than a bank account at risk. They weave into a single chain designed to yank the truth of love out of the hands of the person so desperate for its caress.

Unsustainable False Expectations of love.

Love has always been uncontrollable. When someone starts a relationship using their resources to sweep the other person off their feet, a standard is set. Imagine meeting someone who speaks with a flawless accent causing everything they say to drip with honey. After a short time, their partner hears them speaking on the phone with a family member and not using an accent at all. Is this a terrible betrayal? In the grand scheme of things, not really, but it creates a sense of creeping doubt about other things. The same can occur with trying to buy the love of someone.

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Also, life is far too unstable to use money or status to impress another person. Markets turn. Businesses fold. And sometimes spent accounts may not regenerate. Think of someone who relies heavily on their appearance and never stretches to increase their level of intellect or compassion. They eventually have to seek where their true value lies. Same for the person who sees monetary support as the only thing they bring to the table.

Knowing the Truth

The fragility of love means everyone questions how it all fits together. Inherit in this is why the person they are with loves them. When using money to charm another person, the doubt and questions swirl higher and higher like a windstorm ready to tear everything apart.

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It might seem this is only a problem for the one spending on their partner. The one being wooed in this manner does have questions lurking in the background of their mind as well. They will wonder why this person behaves the way they do. Doubt will creep into their hearts as to what their true value when they are unable to respond in kind. This creates a pressure which could snap the relationship in two.

Sneaky Ways It Can Happen

The funny thing about the arrangement is the subtle the forms it may take. Rarely, if ever, does one person write a giant check and purchase the other person’s heart. Considered in that light, the prospect sounds like something from a cartoon. But seeing more realistic ways the dynamic plays out shows how anyone is capable regardless of their age, sex and financial standing fall into the trap.

* Gift Shower: Near endless presents for a variety of reasons or no reason at all.

* Paying Debts: Offering or even paying for credit cards, living expenses or traffic tickets without the presence of a strong commitment to moving forward says to the other person “I’m taking care of you” in a possessive way.

* Covering the Check: While chivalrousness at the beginning, couples growing closer begin sharing entertainment and dining costs. Continuing or doing more falls closer to a purchase of love rather than building a partnership.

Love is complicated even in the best relationships.

With that said, true love is never bought and paid for. Anyone practicing this form of relational building is only getting the portion of the other person’s heart by renting time, attention and possibly their affection. Love must grow in the open air by taking care of the other person, investing in them and giving things from a place of genuine care for them. This grants real love a chance moving forward. If you Want Love Back, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…Click Here…

 

The easiest signal of infidelity

Cheating, in all its forms, can be tricky to spot. The person entering into infidelity may be saying so in a quiet whisper because everyone learns to hide things from those in their life. Only by studying the changes a partner goes through can the undercurrent of an affair be pulled out of the darkness and into the light.

Changes invade multiple facets of a persons life. Eventually, the variations from the previous person become so drastic they cannot be ignored. This makes alterations and their motivations the clearest signal some thing below the surface has changed within a partner. Once noticed, the other person needs to begin asking questions to discover what lies beneath. Let’s look at some areas of change.

Physical signals of infidelity

Though cliche, this is often the easiest to spot. The person is putting their change on display for everyone to see. Things will compound as things progress.

Physical Body: Weight loss is common. Early on, they might state health as the key reason. While possibly accurate, pay attention what follows their reaching a healthy weight. They might try to stretch things.

Personal Style: Changes in dress, as with the body, might not occur all at once. Updating one’s style is not out of the ordinary. However, a swing into a more professional or youthful style outside of the parameters of their day to day life may mean their getting encouragement elsewhere to try something outside their comfort zone.

Modifications: The most extreme of the physical changes often begin with conversational hints. Mentioning a style of tattoo they like or the possibility of getting an elective surgery without any context or history is cause for concern.

Mental signals of infidelity

As the body is overt when changes happen, the mind can hide its changes. Some people enjoy the challenge of learning a new language, experience a different cuisine or going to a conference for unrelated interests. Most people need to be motivated to learn, grow and change their mind.

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* Know Who They Are: One needs to know if their partner is naturally drawn to learning and self improvement.
* What Brought Them There: Even learners feel a reason to change and that motivation should be explained.
* See If They’ll Share: True learners want to discuss or even bring their partner along, so hiding this part of their life is a red flag.

Emotional signals of infidelity

The heart possesses the most shrouds of all. Sometimes the persons does not know their own heart. It can be twisted into knots or hide the truth from even the owner. One of the things making this hard for everyone involved centers around the state of the current relationship. If fleeing to an affair, the person may not feel able to be entirely open. Listening to what they say and unsolicited feedback from those outside the relationship can show how they are changing. Also, checking the emotional temperature and expressing one’s heart to the possible cheater may cause them to unconsciously open up. Treading lightly in this area is critical because of the embedded mystery in everyone.

Being alert and in communication brings these changes to light much sooner. Once aware of them, one must avoid the temptation to sweep them under the rug and pretend everything will be fine without any intervention. Pain may be an outcome of discovering a partner has made changes for another person. But it is better to find out early rather than living in a web of untruth and betrayal. Be brave, ask hard questions and check your own motivations to help gain the love you long for.  If you Want Love Back, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…Click Here…

 

Making up instead of breaking up

Forgiveness within a relationship, whether an ongoing or fractured one, is paramount. Without engaging in the constant dance of risk taking, wronging and repair of the relationship, couples never grow beyond the tiny, safe patch of grass where they graze. This means knowing the right time to consider things careful and when to release things. Most people fall on the side of the coin where a resolution is desired. What drives this? What are some signs it has been long enough? Is there such a thing as a correct time to make up? These and other questions create a possible environment where couples remain in a holding pattern. Understanding each section and then making decisions according to what needs to happen means taking several factors into account and seeing how they piece together.

What is the drive for making up?

It seems natural to say everyone wants to be forgiven. However, we all know people who either seem constantly content to pursue their own whims and desires without a care for the damage this behavior causes. These individuals are sometimes the hardest to forgive because they appear to want it the least.

This points to an important factor in making up. The act rarely, if ever, is for the other person. Think back to the last fight had with someone important and the feelings left in the wake of the disagreement. If being honest, one’s personal feelings dominated the initial thoughts because it grows hard to imagine the other person hurting as much as we do in a given moment.

Because pain is such great motivator, it can push us to make snap decisions. Pain can also be an excellent teacher. Taking a little time to discover the source of the pain, one’s role in its manifestation and how the pain causes us to respond makes us better equipped to change. Part of that change is in repairing the relationship damaged in the disagreement.

What are the signs it has been long enough?

While sounding cliche, one will know when adequate time has passed to bring about reconciliation. One must be aware of the signs because a lack of awareness leads to being locking a cold place where forgiveness refuses to flourish. Let’s look at some possible signs.

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* Sting is Lessened: Memory of the event or disagreement does not seem quite so fresh. This does not mean all the pain is gone. It just isn’t as sharp.

* Sense of Lack: When thinking of the other person, they come to mind first and not the offense. One needs to be aware they miss the other person and want them back in the relationship fully.

* Ability to Discuss: The processing of things has been done and now the person can talk about it in all the facets necessary without the sensation of being cut by it. One needs to stay in touch with their feelings. Being robotic in their handling of the matter increases the chance for recurrence rather than forgiveness and repair.

Is There a Correct Time?

In short, there is with the caveat it varies from person to person. Far greater damage can be done if one forces a timetable on someone before they are ready. Maybe because of modeling from their family, one person forgives quickly. The other side may need time to ponder everything while getting in touch with their feelings without them being so raw. When enough signs from the area above align for both people, making up becomes an option for both people.

Forgiveness forges deeper bonds within couples. Always bailing on tough conversations or situations only serve to weaken the structure of the overall relationship. One needs to resist rushing the process. Neither can they ignore the opportunity offered by disagreements and reconciliation. Take the right time and then reach out because everyone will feel better afterwards. If you Want Him Back, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…Click Here…

Chasing or Letting Go-Hard Truths About Relationships

Everyone faces the eternal question of should one continue pursuing someone or releasing the relationship at some point. The heartache caused by the struggle has less to do with the final decision than the fear of losing the “one that got away.” You can end up swirling in an ocean of self doubt. For such reasons, it proves best to assess the situation critically using the past as a guide, the present as a compass and the future as a destination.

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A Guide about relationships.

“Those who forget history are doomed to repeat it.” Couples trapped in endless loops of arguments, unstable behaviors and even the placid stability often lament the state of their relationship. The reason they do this is because they forget about the previous things in the relationship.

Seeing what your partner has valued in the past will indicate what he will value moving forward. Risk takers seek excitement. These adventurous souls never entirely become homebodies. They may change for a short period of time and bounce back to their wild ways. When assessing past behavior, one must take into account what is important to themselves and where their partner overlaps with them.

Divergent interests or values bring stress. If you find yourself working at cross purposes, it might be time to say goodbye. A Compass Compasses prove great when needing to head in specific direction because they point toward the North Pole. One needs a strong foundation when making a difficult decision, so knowing magnetic north is the most valuable information to possess.

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What sorts of things serve as compasses for the relationship?

* How he talks to you: A kind voice may mean he’s concerned about hurting your feelings. A sharp tone could demonstrate a loss of patience. * Interests and desires: Watching where he spends his time, if he includes you and how much they have changed since you have been together. These might point to inclusion or separation.

* Big Issues: A common mantra is how much opposites attract. While it makes for sparks, couples on wildly opposing sides of important things likely end up fighting more than uniting. The tricky part of dealing with compasses is they can be prone to interference. To combat any confusion, you need to talk to him about these things and possibly qualify what he means in given areas. His tone might have less to do with a lack of concern and more with a long and stressful day. Regardless, these are important indicators.

A Destination no one ever gets anywhere without knowing where they want to arrive. This seems very basic. Continuing to pursue a relationship means knowing where you want it to end. Do you want a traditional marriage? Are you hoping for an open relationship? Though representing two extremes, moving forward with the right person only happens when you know which of the countless avenues you wish to travel. An important thing to recall is destinations have the freedom to change.

In the end, the hardest part of the decision to end a relationship has far less to do with the one you bond with. The letting go or hanging on requires a far deeper study in what matters to you. The challenge of being honest about what matters, where you are willing to go and how you will get there says far more about you. By doing the hard work, you will know if you need to hold tight or wish them well. So dig deep, check the stars and move toward love.

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Three Signs to Let Go and Move On

Three signs to let go and move on is an article that hopefully will help you with one of the most important decisions you will ever make in life. Ending a relationship triggers numerous emotions which means making the right decision requires some assurances. Seeing the reasons takes a critical eye and an iron will to act upon them. The signs fall into three main categories. Let’s look at the reasons along with the subcategories under them.

One of three signs: Loss of Meaning

Relationships require support beyond simple things like pleasure or companionship. Shallower items may prop up a failing couple early in the run. Unfortunately, the weight of longer relationships require sturdier supports.

Doesn’t Mean Anything Anymore: When one no longer feels valued in the relationship, they will wonder what the point of continuing is. This often sounds quite dramatic, but everyone needs to feel valued. The lack of mean eats away at the relationship slowly like a lemon left face down on a marble counter top with its slow destruction to the porous stone.

Don’t Have Trust: Like meaning, the erosion of trust can be subtle at first. The trust bank requires replenishment constantly. The small investments shore up the relationship when times become hard. With exhausted trust, the relationship ends in strangulation of hurt feelings and sideways glances.

One three signs: Lack of Future

Relationships require room to grow. Couples hitting the highest levels of growth, commitment and connection may find they have no where else to go. This stagnant pool breeds mistrust. In this state, either person may feel suffocated and wonder where things are going.

History Versus Vision: A longing for better times in the past means someone is drinking from the well of nostalgia hoping things might return to the way they were. Without forward momentum, couples cease growing. A good history can contribute to a good foundation. Hanging all hope on the past proves to be a millstone dragging the relationship underwater.

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Three signs

All the Effort: If one person does all the work, they might want to consider just how much the relationship means to their partner. This can be a tricky thing to determine. Any discussion with a partner will likely lead to a disagreement since everyone usually thinks they are doing all they can to hold up their end of things. Careful consideration must be exercised to determine if someone is doing all they can within the relationship.

One of three signs: Emotional Pain

One of the strongest indicators of relational health is emotional pain. This can be difficult to quantify as there are not good measurements for pain. Medical professionals have a scale of one to ten. Often, matters of the heart can feel like a ten when a couple goes through them, but the intensity can lessen with the passage of time.

Being Alone is Better: Making the choice to be on one’s own rather than with a partner points to the location of a person’s heart. It might be a situation where peace is found in the stillness. An important thing to remember centers around the individual’s natural style of interaction. Introverts might prefer to be alone even in the best relationship. Being aware is critical.

Hurts to Be with Them: A sensation of pain from a dull sense of dread to a stabbing pain in the chest can be physical signs of an emotional pain. Expressions of emotional pain, especially very intense ones, prove difficult for most people to share. Many suffer in silence. A few lash out in response to the pain. Ultimately, these are not the correct responses.

Deep reasons run throughout relationships giving clear indications as to the overall health of the pairing. By being alert and responding appropriately, the relationship can end with a minimal amount of damage to either person. Loss of meaning, lack of a future and ongoing emotional pain lead to the right decision no matter how difficult it might be. Be smart, release the pain and move forward toward a healthy future.

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