You’ve been in a relationship long enough to actually know that your boyfriend is your perfect soul-mate. Or maybe you’re married to the most caring man and want to show him how much you also care.
In either situation, you’re convinced beyond a reasonable doubt that he’s the right man for you and you’re ready to spend the rest of your life with him. If that’s the case, then here are 6 ways to let him know how much you care:
1. Cook a meal for him to show that you care
This idea may be old fashioned, but every man adores a woman who can cook. The fact that you are willing to sacrifice your time to prepare a home-made meal makes it pretty obvious that you care. All you have to do is to find a good recipe and use it to prepare something special for him.
You can start preparing the meal before he arrives, just make sure the food doesn’t get cold before he gets home. If he enjoys wine, another thoughtful touch would be to get him a favorite bottle to complement the dinner. Make the dinner experience even more special by adding candlelight and soft background music for a more romantic ambiance.
2. Give him some space if you care
This may sound a little surprising, but most men enjoy having some time and space to themselves occasionally. As much as you’d love to spend more time with your man, it creates a healthier relationship when you recognize and accept that he actually needs to spend some time on his own or with his friends.
It’s important to know your man well enough to be there whenever he needs you, but try to keep yourself away when he needs to spend some time on his own. Let him have his spare time, and if possible, use that time to do something for yourself; get a massage or go out and have some fun with your girl friends.
3. Really listen to him when he talks
Some women find it hard to keep their mouth shut when they’re having a conversation with their man. This is because a woman will almost always have something to talk about.
Men, on the other hand, typically don’t talk as much. So when they do speak, you can show him how much you care and respect what he has to say by keeping quiet, listening attentively and offering relevant comments.
4. Don’t be afraid to say “I’m sorry” if you care
One of the biggest mistakes you can make in your relationship is being unwilling to admit when you’re wrong. We all make mistakes, and by owning up to them rather than trying to hide them, it lets your partner know that it’s okay for him to make mistakes too. It will instill trust and respect for you in your man, and your relationship will become even stronger.
5. Embrace his shortcomings if you care
One of the best ways to show someone you care is to make sure they know that you love them exactly as they are, “warts and all”, as they say.
That just means you acknowledge their flaws but accept them anyway and love them unconditionally. It’s important that your man knows that you love him for who he is and not for who you want him to be.
6. Give him a “just because” gift
Being the lady in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re the only one who appreciates gifts. Surprise him from time to time with something you know he likes. Listen carefully, he probably leaves plenty of clues by talking about things he’d like to have.
You don’t have to wait for a special holiday to give him a “just because” gift, and they don’t have to be expensive. The realization that you cared enough to give him a gift for no other reason than because you love him will mean the world to him.