Five new date outdoor ideas

When the weather warms, couples seek great ways to spend time together shedding the coziness of the indoors for the bright warmth of the wide world. Several opportunities open up for those with an adventurous spirit, a bit of creativity and a passionate drive. Let’s look at some of those options and how they can be tailored to the specific interests of those on the hunt for fun.

Date idea 1. Active Activity

Everyone enjoys replaying the times during the spring, summer and early autumn of their youth spent engaging in some spirited games. As children, the spirit of competition may have been too great. Couples can take a more leisurely approach to getting outside in the sun for some friendly play.

* Complete Leisure: There is a block of movement build strictly for enjoyment. Couples can throw a Frisbee or play with no aim to accomplish anything. The light work allows for conversation and laughter.


* Competitive Play: Youthful games like miniature golf or horse shoes gives a slight sense of stakes to what is happening without sweating through a shirt or making one another feel a trophy is on the line.

* Amp It Up: Couples with higher drives can head out for things like shooting baskets or tennis. This elevates the energy, but they need to watch that tempers do not flare as well.

Date idea 2. Walking Around Downtown

Several smaller towns have taken steps to beautify their downtown districts. This change has allowed a variety of businesses to set up in close proximity to unique eating establishments. Taking an opportunity to amble through a quaint locale increases conversation, allows sweet physical contact and gives each a chance to share their personal taste. Antique and old book shops give time to explore for wonderful treasures.

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Five new date outdoor ideas.

Date idea 3. Making Unique Snacks

Homemade foods, especially those with a sense of whimsy, prove to be a great activity for couples using a variety tools and ingredients secured at a nominal cost. Ice cream and shaved ice demonstrate personal tastes. One may discover a partner’s preference for coconut or they considered throwing salty peanut butter in their ice cream. These windows offer a new vista to the person beyond what they want to eat.

Date idea 4. Outdoor Concert/Event

With general admission seating and a convivial outdoor setting, couples may find heading for a night out under the stars to listen to music or watch a movie projected onto the side of a building may be the fun they are looking for. These concerts could give everyone a chance to hear something new. The symphonies of most cities have an outdoor concert during the summer where they play lighter and more familiar fare. This could be an ideal introduction to classical music with a starry sky.

Date idea 5. Finding Fun at a Festival

There are festivals for everything including art, music, comedy and countless others. With the elevation of craft brewing, the purveyors of hops get into the festival game when the weather warms. The cost can be minimal with varied fun. Here’s what can be done at a festival.

* Browsing booths with oddities like an antique store with bright sunlight and fresh air.
* Finding local artists who present a new take on things witnessed on a daily commute around the city.
* Consuming the wares of fine chocolatiers, brewers and candy makers of all stripes.
Getting outside can be fun, open up new vistas of things for couples to do and spark conversation. Couples only need to step through the door into the sunshine. Out in the open, they can find whole new facets of their relationship.

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Salve for the Pain from Breaking Up

The sting at the end of a relationship leaves many people lost and floundering. In the haze of pain, one can wonder if they will every come out the other side whole even if they have suffered heartbreaks in the past. Those in pain need a course of action where they feel progress being made dealing with what they went through and becoming a better person at the other end. Let’s look at some steps for moving forward.

Take Time Away instead of breaking up.

Even the most resilient people require time to let the hurt of breaking up subside. The initial days and weeks magnify the pain one is feeling. An important thing for everyone to do at this point is taking a step away from things and granting themselves permission to feel the pain. Like a seed planted in the ground, buried pain rises to spread its vines throughout a person’s life and future relationships. A hurt person will want to be well as soon as possible. A quick resolution becomes less of a catharsis and more of a burial.

Keep Busy with Other Things

Laying greater focus on the former relationship and its demise will trigger negative feelings. While self examination and evaluation of the relationship may be a good exercise at some point, this should never be done immediately at the end. Skewed perspectives will lead one to misinterpret things. One needs to take advantage of the situation. They may get away from relationships and focus on other areas.

Educate: Delving to a particular area of interest, perhaps neglected even prior to the relationship, may open up several areas. It is wise to narrow the focus to interests with personal history and avoid things one may have followed with the partner.

Explore: Travel and new activities means exposure to things. This richness creates a more interesting individual. One need only be limited by their own imagination. Crafts and hobbies often spring from this fertile ground.

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Examine: During a relationship, one might lose touch with themselves making the time following an even greater challenge. Getting back in touch and casting an eye toward things going on inside may yield additional fruit over time.

Be Gentle

Too often following a break up, people grow critical about everything. This attitude starts as a protective shell against the pain they are feeling and then morphs to encompass so much more. The first step to avoiding bitterness over a break up requires being gentle to oneself. Some have never talked to themselves, either internally or externally, with the care they would one of their friends. They need to extend the same kindness to themselves to help the healing process.

Get Out of the House

Isolation suffocates people in pain. They think lack of contact will keep them safe from future pain. While this is true on a strictly narrow sense, it creates an environment where they are only alone. Getting out of the house with friends and family will keep one connected to the world at large. This becomes critical when a desire to date again rises because it will be easier to follow through.

The pain can feel insurmountable as though it actively seeks to crush the life from the body. For that reason, acknowledging the pain without giving up one’s life to it allows for the possibility of moving through it. Staying engaged by taking time, keeping busy, being gentle and getting into the world proves the healthiest way to grow from rather than being stunted by the pain of breaking up.

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Communicate instead of break up

No relationship rolls along without any bumps in the road. Once a crisis presents itself, couples discover pulling the relationship out of a downward spiral proves supremely difficult. Partners can take simple steps to smooth things out lowing the risk of an explosive end to the relationship. Though the steps sound easy, couples need to invest time and energy if they seek a perpetual trajectory. Let’s see what they need to pursue.


The cornerstone of every relationship, personal or profession, rests on being able to communicate. When approaching any problem, couples find most of the issues tie back to how they communicate. A simple process exists to get couples on the same page while strengthen the relationship as a whole. Breaking them into pieces will demonstrate their importance and how they help couples moving forward.

Listening: Individuals always think they are excellent listeners. Unfortunately, active listening requires more than not talking. To listen, the couple will need to maintain eye contact, confirm the message being received and ask key questions. It is also important not to interrupt the person speaking too frequently.

Sharing: The other side of communication means sharing things as well. A less forceful person might hold things close rather than offering thoughts, feelings and dreams to their partner. A lack of emotional honesty and parting of the veil makes both people feel isolated.

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Communication is a give and take. Both people need to feel seen and heard. Those who do not feel that connection will seek it elsewhere.

Apologize Sincerely:

Behind communications, couples who last are able to apologize to one another. This is more than a quick “I’m sorry” to move things along. The party who has been hurt needs to share they have been harmed and how it makes them feel. Once aware of the offense, the other person should communicate their understanding of the situation, their pain over having hurt the other person and how they intend to address this in the future.

Apologies can be one of the most challenging things a couple can face, even those who have been together for a long time. Those capable of mastering sincere apologies last far longer than those who hold onto resentment and pain letting it fester and seethe. Also, an honest, heartfelt expression trumps a perfect execution every time.

Doing Stuff Together:

This step, similar to the first two, sound surprisingly simple and obvious. Unfortunately, couples with longer relationships point to a lack of mutual interests, adventures and surprises. Activities done together bond couples giving them a shared language. They can recall a time they went somewhere, played a game or even did something they never thought they would do. Here are some things to consider when planning an activity.

* Small Works: Simple things can carry as big an impact as the largest all day adventure.
* Get Out of Town: Even a day trip to a national park can break a routine and put a couple on a path to discovery.
* Indoor Playtime: Doing a puzzle, having a picnic on the floor or playing a childhood board game adds a sense of play and gets everyone off their electronic devices for a little while.

All of these items place the couples in front of one another. When couples share space, they will end up sharing other things too. They meld together in a healthy way where they can communicate deeply, ask for honest forgiveness and develop a unified history. All they will need to invest is time and effort.

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Royal Treatment Begets Royal Results

Royal Treatment Begets Royal Results

While men strive to appear to the outward world as unflinching heroes, their armor falls away exposing them for the creatures they truly are. Most men long to be respected, given space to not let stress consume them and then reflect those same things back upon the one they love. Taking this approach can be challenging as it means placing trust in the eventual outcome. Often the rewards far outweigh the effort.

Stepping to Royalty

Relationships and moving within them operate within a paradigm giving the impression of ease. As with most things, the nuances of these steps require far more energy than first expected.

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* Listen to What He Says and Does Not Say: Everyone, even those who turn out to be the most guarded, end up disclosing exactly what they want. Taking note of what is being shared gives a window into the other person’s heart. Unfortunately, the window is often opaque requiring occasional questions to make sure things are on the right track.

* Time with Other Guys: Encouraging him to spend time with his friends proves important. Some men either bury the part of them which needs masculine friendship or they selfishly rip it away from other things. Imagining how he would respond if the pressure was removed by granting him freedom to do it as he decided makes the gift bestowed even sweeter. He will be glad even if he does not understand why.

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Royal Treatment Begets Royal Results

* Share His Experiences: By making sure to do things with him, he will notice a desire to be included. There will be times or events he may not wish to share, but his appreciation may grow with the offer. Approaching these things with an open mind shows him how invested you are in him and what he likes.

* Let Him Hear from You: Knowing their woman fights along side them, sees the things they do and wants the best for them bolsters men and feeds them with confidence they sometimes feel fading. Being encouraging seems like a small thing. Good men only need a little nudge to remind them how much better their life is with you in it.

Royal Benefits:

Seeing direct responses to actions leads to positive outpouring from one partner to another. Let’s see how they manifest themselves in relation to the four steps.

* He Hears You: A man heard by his partner will extend the same courtesy.
* He Treasures Time with You: With time away, he will see how nice it is to be around their partner.
* He Pursues Your Interests: With a lack of securing things for himself, he will be more inclined to experience some of your interests without any cajoling necessary.
* He Encourages You: He, filled with confidence and security, will pour the same qualities out in return.

These qualities on both sides need to flow from a place of love. No one should ever feel compelled to only give and never receive anything in return. Also, taking these steps with only a view toward the outcome poisons what is growing within the relationship. A man who feels safe, secure and respected will want to make sure you feel the same things and much more.

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Speaking to a Partner’s Love Language

Gary Chapman, in his best selling book, outlined the concept of love languages. He broke them down in general categories and posited everyone has a particular language to which they respond. Most people give in a language they desire. Unfortunately, being paired with someone possessing an identical love language is quite rare. More often than not, a partner needs something requiring sacrifice and practice to speak to them in a ways they truly value. This makes understanding all the love languages critical for open communication and deepen intimacy.

Gifts In some ways, this seems like the simplest love language

because one buys something for their partner and it is done. Those who respond to this language do not point to the gift itself. The gift represents everything else involved. Things like time, attention and effort all meld to elevate the item from a “gift” to a representation of the the other’s heart. In a gift card obsessed culture where no one wants to get the “wrong” thing, a thoughtful, specific item speaking directly to a partner’s interests goes a long way to bring two people closer together.


For this group, the presence of the one they care about can be enough. Think of a cold day when the wind blows and sleet hits the windows. Sitting next to a fire and having one’s partner there warms more than the body. It warms the heart. Too often, a person can get too focused on doing things or providing an experience. Those with the love language of time only want to know they matter enough to be with.

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love language


Words trip people up as society moves ever farther from a place where words hold sway. Take all sorts of social media with their emojis or pictures substituted for a well timed word. People who need words do not seek eloquence. They only want to hear the truth about themselves from their partner’s heart. It can take the form of a poem, a song or a simple whispered “I love you” followed by a pet name. Because of this, they feel seen and heard by the one they love.


This sounds really big as a love language complete with grand gestures or arduous tasks. The simplest way to understand this is think of the worst household chore. It varies, but everyone has one. Now, imagine arriving home with the task completed unexpectedly. Service is doing things for the partner they may always have to do or put off doing. This lightens their burden. But deeper than merely doing a chore for them, the partner sees how the rest of their work is acknowledged and seen.


Before this turns to more adult topics, because almost no one can resist those touches, this love language centers on more G and PG touching. Holding hands, snuggling on the couch and a good old fashioned hug passes affection to those with this love language. One of the biggest challenges for people with this love language occurs when the relationship has been well established and most of the early playfulness and touching vanishes. They need skin to skin contact to know their partner is close and cares.

Almost everyone has a dominant and secondary love language where they receive the majority of the reinforcement of connection. However, everyone should receive a variety of love from all these categories because it touches them in a variety of ways at different times. Words of love can impact those longing for touch as much as a tight hug. The important thing is to take the time, get to know what a partner needs and then strive to fill them with as much love as possible.

Your Ex is Dating Again…Is It Too Late to Make Up?

Your Ex is Dating Again…Is It Too Late to Make Up?

A common truism for couples who have separated is the door on any future romance has been closed. While true in most respects, one does not need to surrender to an inevitable condition when an ex begins dating someone new.

Realistic expectations, relational growth and mature friendship must exist if things will return to a place where romance rises again. Seeing these roles for what they truly mean and implementing key changes offer a chance for love.

The Ex pectation Experiment

People often believe they possess a clear understanding of what they want. Unfortunately, they rarely take into account how their view might be skewed. Several things kick expectations from realistic to unrealistic.

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* The End: A blind eye to how the relationship ended may cause either an overly sunny or cloudy view of things.
* A Hard Inward Look: Most individuals find evaluating their part in the end of the relationship too great a challenge.
* Outside Factors: Stress caused by finances, differing worldviews and countless other factors shrink when seeking to reestablish the relationship.

Taking all of this into account, one must spend an adequate amount of time assessing both what happened and their part in the relationship and its dissolution. Those willing to work hard to secure a clear vision will be in a place to take the next step if the relationship can be renewed.

Being Whole and Solid

At the end of a relationship, people can long to rush back into the comfort of any coupling. People may find themselves back in situations seeking unhealthy things for themselves, hurting those they are with or both.

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Keeping a clear vision, someone needs to come from a place where they are healthy including the body, mind and heart. This means finding other connections which will prevent their ex from assuming the only reason for their presence is romance. The hardest part of this step centers around genuinely seeing others and not using them to hold a place for the relationship they are waiting for.

A Friendly Foundation

For there to be any chance of a rekindled romantic relationship, a true friendship must exist. The prospect of being friends sounds easy on the surface because of the dynamic affection once existing between the two people. Unfortunately, several small patches lead to perilous pitfalls.

* Can’t Be Fake: Pretense of friendship will always be discovered because it cannot be maintained.
* Honest Talk: Good friends share in the ups and downs of one another’s life and hearing about growing love stabs deep into the softest places.
* Willing Joy: More than hearing alone, a friend will cultivate the happiness of the other selflessly, even when they are not the source of joy.

Only from a place of honest friendship can one hope to return to the deep held place of love in the heart of a former lover. This bears out because you will demonstrate your care for them. By witnessing it first hand, they may be warmed beyond what once existed.

This process will never be easy because it requires a strength and selflessness most people would prefer never to test. But then love is often the sweetest when borne through sacrifice, honesty and care. Being that for someone allows for old wounds to be healed and a future to flourish.

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What To Expect As A Modern Woman Going Through A Divorce

What To Expect As A Modern Woman Going Through A Divorce

by Leeanne Kunnert

No one going through a divorce is an expert on the subject. Every divorce is unique and offers a different set of challenges. There are common mistakes that are frequently made with unexpected results that occur in one form or another when a woman is going through the divorce process. In this installment our divorce attorneys will share information that they have been given that helps women het through their own divorces both financially and emotionally.


Not only does the divorce itself take awhile the finality of it tends to take a long time to recover from. This is natural and should be taken in stride. You will recover from your divorce. It may take you a longer period of time than it did your best friend, your sister or co-worker, but it will happen. There will be days you can barley function while others where you are concurring the world. Surround yourself with a variety of support systems and continue to move through the process until one day you wake up, and it is not the first thing you think about.

The divorce attorney you choose is important. Don’t settle for a criminal defense attorney, a probate attorney or any other type other than a family law attorney that specializes in divorce, child custody, alimony with a focus on women’s rights in divorce. A local divorce attorney specializing in family law will get you a better settlement than anyone else. They are versed in divorce proceedings, local judges and other local attorneys. They will work the system to make sure you come out on top.

Away From Each Other

Dig into your finances. Don’t let your spouse tell you what you have and what you don’t have. It is important to gain access to all financial documentation that either one of you possesses. So many divorces occur because of financial disagreements. Before you even file or your spouse gets wind that you plan to leave start to organize and access all of your joint accounts and all of the single accounts you both have. Online passwords should be documented along with the name and account number of all accounts that are held by either of you or jointly. The more information you gather the better off you will end up financially once the marriage dissolves.

Consider how much it will cost you to live independently. The well being of you and your children will depend a lot on the financial aspect of the divorce. Estimate high on living expenses and such. Don’t let the emotions of the divorce get in the way of ensuring that you are your children will continue to live the lifestyle you have become accustomed to. Keep in mind incidentals that may not be able to be kept after the divorce such as health care. If your spouse is currently carrying insurance on you and the kids it needs to be specified that this will continue or that they will compensate the loss out of pocket.

The goal in any divorce is to split from one another. It is not important who is at fault and trying to get back at one another only leads to more problems in the end. Leave the complicated stuff to the divorce attorneys to work out and start fresh. Your ex will more than likely be willing to comply with what you are asking for if the proceedings are coming along without a lot of drama. Both parties are looking for a clean break and a fresh start to move on. Your divorce frees you from any obligation you had to your spouse. It is a perfect time to head out into the world and become the you that may have been oppressed in your marriage.

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The Extraordinary Magic of Self Love!


 The Extraordinary Magic of Self Love!

By Jafree Ozwald & Margot Zaher

“Love gives you the first insight into eternity. Love is the only experience that transcends time. That’s why lovers are not afraid of death. Love knows no death.” ~Osho

How often do you have unconditional love and deep acceptance for yourself just they way you are? Many of us get wrapped up in looking for approval, appreciation, acceptance and love from the outer world, and don’t realize that there is a vast infinite supply of it already within. Self love is one of the most powerful habits and healing gifts that you can learn to give yourself. You are truly the only one who can be there 100% for you, and accept who you are no matter what happens in your life. While other people may have a deep appreciation for you, only you have the power to let in their love and feel it inside. The interesting thing is that you are only able to feel another person’s love for you when self love is present in your life. By loving yourself, you allow in love from “outside” yourself.

“Appreciation of others and the appreciation of your self is the closest vibrational match to your Source Energy of anything that we’ve ever witnessed anywhere.” ~Abraham-Hicks

When you activate the habit of letting in deeper feelings of self acceptance and self love, the world becomes a truly magical place. By bathing in the vibration of love, you actually experience the entire world from a softer more empowered perspective. The mundane becomes sacred, and everyone you meet feels deeply connected with the Divine. The simplest of experiences you have each day become doorways to the Divine. There is a higher awareness in you of a natural effortless connection with your Divine Essence. This helps you to receive the most loving relationships, abundant wealth, peak health, and most satisfying career in your life!

One of the magical aspects of practicing Self Love is that it becomes super easy to manifest anything you want into your life. The vibration of love is the foundation for manifesting the highest levels of success in this material world. When you completely love and accept all aspects of yourself, you send out such a strong energetic vibration into the Universe that you become a massive manifesting magnet! You’ll experience that everyone and everything around you simply wants more of whatever you’e got! Even if someone just receives one brief glance flowing from this deeper self loving feeling inside, they can be intimately impacted for the rest of their life.

“You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~ Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha)

The energy of love physically vibrates at a much higher frequency than any other emotion we can choose. Those lower vibrational feelings such as fear, greed, lack, impatience, or frustration only block you from manifesting everything your heart desires. Through increased levels of Self love you will naturally shift the vibration within your mind-body, transforming yourself into a powerful Source of magnetic energy that attracts those divine experiences, relationships, and financial opportunities into your life! We’ve found that the more love you shower onto yourself, the more the Universe showers its abundance of every kind onto you.

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The Extraordinary Magic of Self Love

The people who don’t make loving themselves a priority in their day are usually caught in a belief that loving yourself is selfish and egotistical. This type of self love we’re referring to is not egocentric, yet one that truly goes beyond the ego and can heal every needy, wounded, angry, prideful part inside you. This true self love is more heart-centered, and is about moving through those feelings of being a separate needy ego. It’s about finding that direct connection to the infinite source at the very core of your being.

“The more you judge, the less you love.” ~Honore de Balzac

Discovering this true Self Love is like believing you were the moon, who needed light and warmth from others on the outside, so that you could reflect that energy back to everyone. Then one day you realized that this love is not coming from outside you, but inside, and that you are truly the Sun who is always radiating, and shining its light onto everyone and everything. When you turn you attention to WHERE the source of love is right now, you simply find out that you were always the Sun and forever will be this brilliant loving light.

“If the light is in one room, the only way to light up the other room is to open the door. The only way to discover new things is to open your mind.” ~Allen Steble

What’s even more interesting about loving yourself is the physical impact it has on your health. The vibration of love has also been scientifically proven to alter the shape and structure of actual water molecules. Since your physical body is made up of more than 70% water, it is continuously impacted by vibrations of negative or positive words you send into it. According to many scientific studies done on water molecules, your physical body is directly affected by the words, sounds and thoughts it is exposed to. When you send your body loving thoughts and energy, each cell in your body actually relaxes and takes on a healthier more powerful configuration. It has also been proven that strong states of Self love boost the immune system in our body, allowing us to more effectively fight off invading mirco-organisms and viruses.

“Love is letting go of fear.” Gerald Jampolsky

You may equate imbuing your body-mind with Self love like putting high performance rocket fuel into your body’s engine. It supports the entire organism in running more smoothly and operating at a peak state of health and well-being. Self love will literally create a physical healing in the body. The more loving energy you send towards yourself and towards each cell in your body, the healthier you will be and the more energy you will have.

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How to Manifest An Amazing Intimate Relationship!

How to Manifest An Amazing Intimate Relationship!

Written by Jafree Ozwald & Margot Zaher

There are many things you can do to manifest an amazing intimate relationship, yet one of the fastest and most effective methods is keeping your attention on what you LIKE about the person, instead of what you DON’T like.  Whatever you put your attention on expands and grows, so why not look for what is Divine rather than hideous?  Whenever you find something negative in someone there’s that judgmental part in you secretly holding an attachment to what they “should” be.   Everybody is exactly the way they need to be right now.  The Universe is always exactly the way it should be in every moment!  Realize the deeper truth in this and you’ll free your energy up to attracting that amazing intimate connection that feels like you’re living in that sacred special loving paradise everyday.

“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.”  ~ Tom Robbins

The Universe is really quite brilliant in many amazing ways.  It is designed to awaken each of us to our infinite path, purpose and potentiality.  If you are going to discover your deepest spiritual depth and truly learn all the life lessons you are here to learn, you MUST open up and deepen in intimacy with someone.  An intimate open loving relationship is your ULTIMATE teacher, because it forces you to go deeper inside and heal all those wounded parts that feel unworthy of love.  Without true intimacy the mind will just make up stories that your relationship is O.K. as it is and while deeper inside you really feel disconnected from your partner.  Only through opening up to deeper intimacy can you discover total healing and the real reason why you are on this amazing journey called Life.

“If you want a place in the sun, you have to put up with a few blisters.” ~Abigail Van Buren

Intimacy (into-you-me-see) can be uncomfortable at first, especially when you have to look at parts of yourself that you don’t like to look at.  Yet, it invites you to release attachment from any protected, defended, velvet rut of an ego-trip, and forces you to reveal the most Divine aspects of your Being.  Sharing your heart openly, vulnerably and freely with another is the strongest and most courageous thing a person can do on this Earth.  The ultimate result is total freedom from suffering.  Sure, intimacy is like anything in life, it contains both the negative and positive aspects depending on how you view it.  Yet, on the path that truly fulfills your soul, intimacy creates a depth in understanding your real self that goes beyond anything you can do in your cave alone.

If you want to start manifesting a more intimate relationship today, here are some helpful techniques to get you started:

1.  Ask the Universe for what you want!  Yes, go ahead and simply ask for more intimacy (and the courage to ask for it) instead of just settling for the connection that you may be tolerating and coping with.  If your relationship is not satisfying to your soul, you are not standing up for what you want.  Imagine what that connection FEELS like and request the Universe sends it your way A.S.A.P!  Be brave!  Start by first focusing on the highest Source of consciousness, ask it to help you find what you honestly want, know that the Universe is listening and trust in whatever happens next!

how to manifest an amazing intimate relationship
how to manifest an amazing intimate relationship

2. Create intimacy with yourself first.  A deeply intimate loving relationship with anyone always starts with discovering a intimacy within yourself.  You can only attract intimacy on the outer if you find it first on your inner world.  Someone can only love and respect you when you love and respect yourself.  If you are afraid of getting hurt by opening to more intimacy, it means you haven’t yet been intimate with this part of you that is still afraid and protecting itself from being hurt.  By being intimate with your inner world, you open the door for others to come inside and help you to discover the Divine Being you truly are.

3.  Practice being more intimate everyday.  One thing we don’t have is a shortage of human beings on this planet.  There are over 6 billion people here today and some will instantly be intimate with you, while others currently have the ability to be cold, distant, prickly and protected.  You deserve the fuzzy warm heart connection you want today!  Affirm to the Universe that everyday you are opening to more intimacy with whomever can open to you.  Don’t wait forever for the one you are in relationship with to open up to you.  If they are blocked, send them lots of love, be with them as deeply as they’ll allow you, and continue on your journey to discover who you truly are.  Once they see that you are FREE and finding heart opening connections with others they will have to break through their inner armor and melt those barriers to love inside.  Finding intimacy for yourself helps them to initiate their healing process.

4. Let go of ALL expectations. Your mind probably has many preconceived ideas of what intimacy should and should not look like.  Remember that these are just concepts about love and ANY attachment to these concepts will limit your ability to experience a deeper intimacy within yourself.  The purpose of intimacy is to be able to fully HEAL all your hidden wounded parts and constantly BE this open unlimited unstoppable loving being.  Why else are you are?  Stop playing small and living under the thumb of others expectations of you!

Start noticing how free you really are.  When you drop these expectations you’ll be able to manifest a soul-to-soul connection that has TONS of intimate eye/heart contact and have healthy boundaries with them. This is your life, if you don’t start living it today you will just postpone it forever and never be alive.  You may miss one of the greatest experiences of life if you don’t create a heart felt open minded intimate connection with another person.  If you’d like assistance creating this connection, apply the secrets found in Chapter 11 of our Manifesting Manual found in our 90 Day Manifesting Program!  Instantly download this amazing program by Clicking Here Now!

Sending you much love and many blessings to you,
Margot and Jafree